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Was this even herpes?

Almost 2 years ago I experienced unprotected sex for the first time with a close friend of mine. She never had anything and we had both gone +2 years without intimacy before the sex. We performed oral on each other.

I haven't had any symptoms since June 2009, but when I DID:

The first occurrence started a month after the sex with:
- lips feeling like they are burning
- getting a blister on my lip
- scabbing over, along with a sore spot in the corner of my mouth
- sore taste buds on my tongue as well

The next occurrence was more mild with only a lip blister and soreness in the corner of my mouth.

It came up once more with the same mild symptoms but that time I noticed a couple of red sore spots on my penis. Which surprised me since it had been almost a year since I had sex with her.

The first doctor I went to just did a visual check of my mouth and penis and she said "Yep, herpes" and gave me a prescription for  Acyclovir, but by then I was in remission.

I wanted to know for sure so I had blood work done at "Planned Parenthood". They checked for both type-1 and type-2 herpes and said I had NO antibodies and was never exposed to herpes.

So if it wasn't herpes, what the heck was it?

*** I'VE HAD NO RECURRENCES SINCE JUNE 2009 ***
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101028 tn?1419603004
you tell her the truth as you know it.

grace
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And if it never comes back?
What do I tell my next gf? :(
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101028 tn?1419603004
well next time you have symptoms in either location, go to be seen and get them swabbed and examined.

grace
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No, no sex since then (2 years ago)
Last outbreak was early June of last year.
The "no antibodies" was what gave me hope.
I didn't know what it was because it was a single blister on my lip, a sore spot in the corner of my lips and that happened a few times. The last time I had 3 red sore spots on my penis and it all just went away.
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101028 tn?1419603004
even the best blood tests still miss 1 out of every 10 hsv1 infections. your oral symptoms do sound like they could be hsv1 orally. if they reoccur, get them swabbed to confirm.

your genital symptoms showing up 1 year later probably were not herpes going on. I assume you haven't had any sex since the encounter in question?

grace
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^ I had sex AND oral
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