you tell her the truth as you know it.
grace
And if it never comes back?
What do I tell my next gf? :(
well next time you have symptoms in either location, go to be seen and get them swabbed and examined.
grace
No, no sex since then (2 years ago)
Last outbreak was early June of last year.
The "no antibodies" was what gave me hope.
I didn't know what it was because it was a single blister on my lip, a sore spot in the corner of my lips and that happened a few times. The last time I had 3 red sore spots on my penis and it all just went away.
even the best blood tests still miss 1 out of every 10 hsv1 infections. your oral symptoms do sound like they could be hsv1 orally. if they reoccur, get them swabbed to confirm.
your genital symptoms showing up 1 year later probably were not herpes going on. I assume you haven't had any sex since the encounter in question?
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