hi, i am 26 had been in a 5 year relationship which ended. Now i have been having protected sex with a new girl for about a month now. The first time we had sex was pretty vigorous and the condom broke once. The next day after the first time we had sex i had a burning sensation in my pubic area and some muscle pain. After the condition stuck around for a week or so, i went to the doctor to get an STD test... all came back negative. I asked the doctor if i had any symptoms of herpes, and she said no... probably jock itch. The problem seemed to go away until about 2 weeks ago when i experienced pain after urinating. When i got home i noticed there was some 'powdery white substance' in the tip of my urethra. I cleaned it out throughly and it hasnt came back since. I have had no pain during urination since, except i do have slight, but seemingly constant irritation in my urethra (which seems to subside when i urinate). Ive been obsessively checking the inside of my penis and have not noticed any more of the white substance, one area (along the base of my urethra) is a little red, nothing that really looks like a lesion or sore. And no open sores or puss filled bumps on my genitals
Im very nervous that i might have herpes or some other STD after all and the burning around my public area seems to come back everytime i start worrying about it. My partner says i have nothing to worry about and she had sex with only one person in 3 years before me.
Should i be nervous? Could this be something else? I dont have health insurance and would like to avoid another trip to the free clinc.
-C