I have had problems with vulvar fissuring since I was about 15. I first went to the gynecologist at age 16 after my first sexual encounter and the doctor recommended testing for lichen sclerosis, etc. However, I never told my parents, and did not yet have a car, so I did not go back. Ever since, doctors have commented on how my vulvar skin looked irritated, and wondered if I had cut myself on shaving since I had a few scars from past fissures. I have been treated for BV and yeast infections, but the fissuring still seems to come back 1-2 times per year. I can often associate it with changes in my soaps/detergents, but that is not always the case.
I have never noticed a vesicle (anywhere), and have never had a cold sore. The fissuring is linear, and follows the nartural folds of my labia. There is a whitish "plaque" that rubs off easily around the fissures.
Furthermore, I have had 3 sexual partners. One at age 16, one at 17, one at 19. I have been back with my first partner since age 19, 5 years ago. He has never had any sort of outbreak that remotely resembles herpes.
I never considered herpes because I have had this problem since before I was sexually active. However, I swam competitively and shared swim suits on occasion with teammates, so I suppose this could be a route of transmission. I recently had a lecture that described the presentation of herpes as "fissuring" and I am now a bit worried that I could possibly have had it all along!