Hi there. I am a gay male and for about the past 6 months I have noticed these slightly small, white, painless bumps on the inner part of my anus. I am the receptive partner in my relationship and have been together with my partner for a few years, so we do not use condoms. I am hoping that they are just "skin tags" because when I pull on them it doesn't hurt and feels like an actual part of the skin. I have regular, painless bowel movements, and sex doesn't hurt either. My boyfriend and I are tested regularly and are both very healthy. Is it a possibility that it could be herpes? Please note that these lumps have been around for 6 months and have not gone away. I always thought herpes comes and goes and is usually associated with sore lesions. My boyfriend has not contracted anything either. They do seem to be growing a little bit bigger. There is a fairly large one very deep inside the rectum that you can only see if you actually spread the rectum open far enough. I would normally rush to the doctor in a situation like this, but I am traveling abroad for the next 3 weeks and wanted to see if I could get any advice on here that might calm my mind until I get back to the States. Could this be a result of being too rough during sex? I know that sounds silly, but I don't want to leave anything out.
Thank you! =)