I am so upset! i've been dating someone for three months and never saw a cold sore. the other night we kissed and had oral sex. afterwards he mentioned he knew he was getting sick b/c he was getting a cold sore! I flipped out! I asked why he would kiss me AND HAVE ORAL SEX with me when he knew he was getting a cold sore! Feigning innocence, i'm left stressing about whether or not i will get oral AND genital herpes. one doctor said no to genital, another said yes to both and i'm hoping you will tell me maybe no to either. when he kissed me there were no blisters or scabs-just a bump that looked kind of purple. i didn't notice b/c he has facial hair. what are my chances of not coming down with genital and my chances of not coming down with a cold sore. Also, how long will i have to wait to find out?
signed,
devastated