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i went to a strip club and got a lap dance, she pulled my penis out but im almost but my shirt was over it most of the time. she was wearing underwear but at one point grinded herself on me. the tip may have been out for a little of this and she was grinding on top of that as well. she kept her underwear on the whole time. Am i at risk of contracting any form of std???  I'm going to get tested for reasuurance, but should i be freaking out??
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101028 tn?1419603004
there's no reason to get tested from this.

grace
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Thanku but I'm still uneasy, have u heard a lot of cases and worries like this? Is my anxiety getting the best of me? It really is killing me on the what ifs
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101028 tn?1419603004
we get probably 100 posts a week from encounters like this between this forum and the std forum.  it's not a risk. no reason for worry.

if you know you are going to worry, in the future, don't unbutton your pants at strip clubs.

grace
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Thank u so much, I got tested this morning and ill get the results mid week, I hope ur right aboutt what u said. This is the first and last time ill ever do this in a club. That's why I'm so worried. All my friends have told me I'm being over paranoid, but I think I'm just under educated about the subject. Facts from proffesionals mean more than kind words from friends. I'm still nervous but I guess ill just have to wait
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101028 tn?1419603004
it was too early for most of your testing anyways so pretty much you doubly wasted your money by getting tested. you never needed testing in the first place and you got it all done far too early into things.

grace
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I'm sorry to keep bothering you, but u don't think testing was even necessary. Even though I'm scarred
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The thing I got tested for was herpes and that's what I'm most scarred about,  is this a paranoid worry for no reason. Again, I'm sorry for bothering you
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101028 tn?1419603004
correct - you never needed tested in the first place.

you spent money on herpes testing which wasn't needed but if you needed the peace of mind from this encounter, you needed to wait at least 3 months post encounter to have the igg blood test done.

grace
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Well I hope ur right, and ill blindly follow the results even if there's a slight chance they are accurate. I can't be freakin out like this for 3 months
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I want to start of by saying, Thanku so much for doing what u do. Someone like you is what the world needs more, and secondly, just so we are clear, even if the tip of my exposed penis was rubbed against the front part of her underwear, I should be ok??
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But let me add, I'm not 100 percent sure I was exposed and it was only for a half of a minute, if that makes any difference
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I know I'm just digging into things, u answered me the first time, there is no need to worry, no need to reply to the last post, thanks for all ur help
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