herpes or not?

I was told i had givin a friend genital herpes after having unprotected sex i was her first and we had a few drinks well i had these tiny tiny bumps right on the rim of the head my penis in one part sometimes increase in size and some times not very noticeable but i had these bumps four a couple years or more and never had blisters ect.. now recently after having somewhat rough sex i noticed on my shaft/ base theres slight redness to the slightly bumps no fluids or puss ect extracted from it can somebody tell me whats going on? im agoraphobic an paranoid skits so i dont go to doctors inless for my crazy meds which its a battle with my self just to go to those some body please help me is any one exprenced this? im confused the bumps do not look and never lookd like the pics and ect i found of herp patients or warts im confused any one have an an opionin or idea or same sitution im in? please mesg me or however you do it

[numberfumber]

To be more detailed they just in one spot no where else and same skin tone they get slightly bigger and sometimes where you can barely see them but never have they looked blisterd or popd or left cuts or whatever some body please help me i cant rest my mind is dwelling it so bad due to the new spots close to base of shaft thanks

[bobrope45]

Well, if someone who was a virgin before you has been diagnosed with herpes, odds are you gave it to her. Your current symptoms do not sound specific for anything and might just your regular anatomy in the penis. Obviously, it would be ideal for you to be seen by a doctor.

Still, you gotta pursue blood testing for herpes, to learn your status. If you indeed have it, you might reduce transmission risk and avoid transmitting it again to someone else.

You don't need to go to the doctor to get a blood test for herpes. Healthcheckusa and other sites offer herpes 1 and 2 IgG blood test.

[numberfumber]

right on thanks and yes....i was only concenrd about the fact i dont have blisters could this mean that i have hsv1  i recieved oral sex growing up so since its a diferent virus it would react differently on genitals can i get other std test like this herpes test your telling me about is this like a at home kind of thing?

[gracefromHHP]

do you know how your partner was diagnosed? was she tested to know if she has hsv1 or hsv2 genitally?

definitely at this point you need a type specific herpes igg blood test to see what your status is.

no, there are no at home herpes tests. you will have to leave your house to get testing done.

grace