After a visual examination, my doctor advised i have herpes. He advised that he is positive that it is herpes based on his examination. Should i request a blood test to confirm, or should i just assume my doctor's diagnosis is correct based on visual exam. Also, will you please clarify the dormancy period. I have been with my wife for 13yrs, a monogamous relationship. She has never had any signs/symtons of herpes. She has been tested for STD's while pregnant (twice). And during her OB GYN visits there have been no STD's found from her blood tests. Thank you for your reply. Should she get tested.