HPV, what to do?

[antoinzaghi]

hello,
first of all, excuse for my bad english...
i need your help.

im man, 36 yeard old, married since 10 years...
in these 10 years i had sex only with my wife...

but 6 months ago i made stupid thing... and i had oral sex (cunniliungus and fellatio) with asian girl during a business trip
i had all STD test till 6 months, all negative fortunately

problem is about HPV

after 3 day from my unprotected sex i had 3 small on my penis...
i was very worried, it was first time in my life...

after 7 days from episode i went to Hospital and they removed that 3 warts with cryotherapy.
doctor told me that the warts were not due to my unprotected sex... because they dont appear after just 3 days..
so she told me that i had HPV from more time and maybe due my stress in that days, the warts come out...

however i baclk do doctor after one months and after 6 month for a check...
and all ok, no warts anymore... everythgin normal.

now, my question is about my realtionship with my wife
in thse 6 months i had no sex with her because i was very afradi and i was waiting all test result until 6 months

but can i have sex with her again?
could i pass HPV to her even if i have no warts anymore?

im very worried because i dont knwo if i can have sex with my wife without any problems...

please help me to understand well how to go on on my realtionship
i read many info on internet but i cannot understand correctly how i have proceed...

great thanks

[Life360_Dave]

Veryworried is correct in that 6 months would be the known earliest and most often takes one year for any warts to show up.

[antoinzaghi]

great thanks for your answer...
i really appreciate

thanks again

[veryworried420]

Some answers, per what I know:

1. Their diagnosis was right. It is impossible to get warts in 3 days.
2. This also means that when you were having sex with your wife, you had HPV. Either she gave it to you from a prior relationship or you had it from a prior relationship.
3. Given #2 above, she has what you have. It is impossible for her not to have it too. She should be tested yearly or every 3 years even if she has no warts. There is no down side to her being tested as a precaution.
4. After you are wart-free, most doctors believe that you are no longer infectious, at that time. This does not mean you will not be infectious some day. Could be years/decades from now. Or not. The majority never become infectious again but there is no clear understanding of who is in this majority or why. There are some doctors (and some in the CDC) who claim that the infected are always infectious. This is not really proven statistically for men because men cannot be tested. However, there some women who go years/decades with neg results only to get a positive result 20+ years later with no explaination why (partner did not cheat). This crazy positive result after years of negative result can only mean that some unlucky people become infectious.
5. You and your wife should assume that you are both infected with the same strains and therefore should resume your sex life again. It is silly not to have sex with her again. Your six month wait is enough time for you to be considered "not infectious" at this time.

Please try to remain monogamous and please understand that for most people, that this is just a cosmetic disease and there are no serious health issues later on. Good luck!