Thank you for your answer!
If you haven't had a lot of partners, I think the vaccine is a good idea.
Oral HPV exists but it is supposedly rare. So, if someone has it orally and performs oral sex on you, you could get HPV - high and/ or low risk but I don't know the chances of catching it. There is a orarisk hpv test available that is not fda approved that can test for hpv if you want your partner to do that first.
Manual stimulation can also pass HPV if you touch one private area and immediately touch your own or vice versa. So, don't cross touch while doing it and you'll be fine.
Best of luck and hopefully no stds!
Stay safe and smart!!!