just wondering... did your partner get hpv from you?
i got it in 1986 .dr took care of it and now23 yrs later it shows up again,and ive been faithfull to my partner for 16 yrs,,i am a male 43 yrs ,so i imagine the virus just goes dormant,,he may of had it years before you to met,so cheeting isnt always the case! hope this helps