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Tough about persuading my girlfriend go for a pap test

I've been in relationship with my gf for a few months, we have sex, mostly protected. She's a virgin at the point when we started dating but I was not. I had and received several times of protected sex and unprotected oral sex as i mentioned in another post. I've been tested negative for all testable STDs including HIV since we dated and no genital warts i have ever got in life.

She doesnt know my sex history becuz i haven't told her anything about it. To be honest, i'm pretty sure that she doesnt like to know the fact. But since I had sex before her so I really want her to go for pap smear on regular basis in the future.

Here's the problem. How should i tell her my history and suggest her go for pap test? What's the best way to conceal my sex history and uncertainty of HPV status? I know it's not really a physical health izzue but surely it's an important part of Cervical Cancer Prevention!!!  I REALLY LOVE MY GF AND I WANT HER TO BE HEALTH AND HAPPY!
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652407 tn?1300737199
just let her know she needs to make sure every thing is ok
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she's informed of my sex history now. She's ok but i cried like a fag when i was telling her the truth. The next step is to suggest her go for a yearly pap.
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652407 tn?1300737199
your GF should be going for a yearly pap any ways. Hiding your past won't help youin the future if she were to be diagnosed with an STD. Lying never solves anything and if she were diagnosed with HPV and she were a virgin then she knows you gave it to her and if you lied and told her you were  a virgin she is only going to resent that. we can't tell you how to tell her with out telling her your are concerned. but again she should be going for a yearly pap.
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