OK..wait wait wait! first this is not the doc forms, this form is for questions yes, but they are answered by reg people that can help.....so from my experience from HPV i'll answer some of your quesions.....
so knowing you have HPV and having unprotected sex with someone that dont know ur infected was wrong! but..
There are many different strans of hpv and yes some cause cancer of the cervix which are usually high risk strans and usually the gential wart strans are low risk...but she should go and have regular pap smears done to be safe.. She can also have the gardasil shots done which will protect from high and low risk strans but they are expencive $$$$, mine cost me $160 each for 3 shots.
There is no cure for Hpv, its a virus that feeds off ur immune system so some people that have a strong immune system can fight off the virus and never show signs of genital warts others get repeated out breaks,So its best to go to a doc and have them removed.
So for her pain during sex thats sounds like inflamaion of the bladder which is just pressure from your penis bumping her bladder,also it could be cause from her having the abortion done, in her belly and lower back those sound like UTIs, so make sure she drinks lots of water and pee regular because that will flush out the bacteria, she can also drink cranberry juice or take cranberry tablits which i find works best for me....also THE MOST IMPORTANT OF ALL...make sure she pees BEFORE and AFTER sex , that will make a BIG difference . it will help with the pain during sex and will help pervent UTIs. If you have to stop in the middle of sex for her to go pee..do it! It will be worth it for her !
She can still have a child IF she has hpv , if she has warts in her vagina or cervix they can be removed before she give birth or just have a C section, some cases when a baby passes through the vagina they can develop warts in there throut or lungs, but im sure she will be checked for that if she becomes prego.
Hpv is something your not going to die from unless its high risk and you develop cancer thats not caught in time, (not to scare you or anything) thats why she should go for regular paps and you reg check ups...
So know that your single U HAVE to be honest with you partner its her decision wheather she want to take the risk and have sex with you! When you have a STD you have to think about other people feelings before your own before you ingage in sex. ALLWAYS use a CONDOM this will help protect your partner ,Not fully, but it will HELP, so if a woman takes ur condom off again and she dont know you have HPV u slip anotherone one! BE responsible!
hope i helped!
Im no expert but ill share some info i have read. First of all the symptoms you state she has are not common of hpv. Hpv is often symptom less. You probably do carry the low risk strain if she in fact had a low risk strain but many people carry more than one strain, so it is a possibility that she could have that as well. There is medication that clears the warts caused by the virus, but not the virus itself. Many disagree on this next point but most experts now believe the virus clears itself with in 6 to 24 months.
there are many natural home remedies for warts. this does not mean you should try them because you may not even have warts. But if in fact you do have warts and cant afford medicine many people use a small amount of apple cider vinegar on a cotton swab. Fasten it over the wart with a band aid or by some means.
This does not mean that women will not be interested in you just because you have a common virus. Get your warts taken care of and if they do not come back forget about it. This far to common of a thing to stress out over in my opinion.