Doc-- about 16 weeks ago I had unprotected sex with a young lady(girl 1), the sex act consisted of her performing oral on me, i penetrated her twice with my penis for about 6-7 seconds , fingered her and then realizing things were moving too fast (without a rubber) and we stopped. Four weeks ago she told me that her doctor had diagnosed her with cervial cancer. Having research the subject on the internet and seeing the connection between CC and HPV, I called her asking about her HPV status, she said that her doctor didnt mention HPV as a cause of her problem. ( shes 33 yrs old , says shes only been with 5 men).
About a week after sleeping with this girl(girl 1), I had protected sex with another friend (girl 2) was had flu like symtpoms about two days after we were together. Now I'm concerned and confused. It my understanding that there are no HPV test for men, so I dont know what to do, i dont know if my friend's flu was unrelated, i dont know if my 6-7 seconds of penetration was enough to contract HPV, girl 1 seems sincere in not knowing how the CC developed, however by all indications (or at least what I read on the internet) is that CC is caused by HPV, i understand that even with a rubber I could transfer the virus to girl 2, I dont have a clue what my next move should be....
Girl 1 is already stressed, do i pound her to get an answer on her HPV status? do i begin to tell other girls i'm with that i might have something? two months ago I had an phyiscal exam for insurance purposes, i had no HIV or anything, do I go get tested for everything under the sun?
could use your opinon!!!