how to tell my future partner that i have hpv

[baby_gurl9310]

i found out that i had hpv 10 years ago i had my treatments and since then they keep coming back negative now im seeing someone and i was wondering how do i tell him. about this without him judging me.i have been avoiding relationships for 7 years now and i just want to get on with my life and be finally happy. i also was wondering if he could get this by oral sex seeings the warts were in on my cervix???im very confused by everything that i have been reading please help put my mind at ease thank u in advance.

[empathy60]

You don't have an active HPV infection anymore if your paps have been normal for so many years/you haven't had warts for 6+ months.  It is your decision whether to reveal you ever had HPV or not to your new partner, but you will not be able to transmit the virus to him.  I don't believe in telling partners about old, inactive HPV infections people can no longer transmit, I only believe it is needed when you have an active infection.  However, it's a personal choice.  Know that you can't give your partner the virus any longer if you have been clear of symptoms for so long.

[baby_gurl9310]

thank u so much!!! yes i am going to have that history talk with him. and denfinitly use condoms . i finally can go in a relationship again and be happy now my mind is at ease......thank u again!!!!!!

[ibizan]

if ur hpv was 10 years ago.....and ur regular on paps..and their normal.....person couldn't get hpv from u if its been gone for 10 years.one can't get hpv from oral sex.u need to inquire of ur partner any history of std's and use the condoms,