From 2006 until early 2008, I had the same partner. He had genital warts about a year prior to our relationship, and he told me a doctor gave him a treatment in which he injected himself with something in his penis every day for about a month until the warts went away. Afterwards his doctor told him he was "cured," so we felt it was safe to have unprotected sex for the duration of our relationship.
Later in 2008, I met my current boyfriend. Several months later, he noticed a bump at the base of his penis and was treated for HPV. He has had limited sexual partners and always had protected sex until me, and his last encounter was about a year prior to our relationship. Recently he has noticed more bumps, which definitely appear to be genital warts.
Considering that I was in a monogamous long-term relationship for two years prior to meeting my current boyfriend, and that I have never shown symptoms of genital warts, I am wondering where the heck this came from? When a person is treated and "cured," is the HPV actually cleared from their body, or do they still carry it and pass it along to others?
As far as my own health history, I have had several abnormal Pap results due to high-risk HPV. The first time it showed up was in 2002, then again in 2004 and 2008. I do not know if it is the same type that keeps recurring, or if I have acquired different types from different partners. My doctor recently told me that they do not test for low-risk HPV, so I have no idea if I have ever had it or if I have it now. Like I said, I have never shown symptoms, but I know there are plenty of STDs that you can unknowingly carry and transmit.
My questions:
Do HPV treatments actually rid the body of HPV entirely, or does the body simply become resistent even though it still carries it? Can it stay in a "dormant" stage that can recur months or even years later? Is there an actual cure?
Have you heard of the injection treatment that my previous partner had? The only treatments I have found online involve freezing or creams.
Can warts be spread from the genitals to the mouth? If my boyfriend and I touch each other sexually, should we be extra careful not to touch our own private areas?
My partner shaves his pubic hair. Could razor nicks be causing his warts to spread more easily?
As for a more personal and ethical question... Are doctors obligated to tell patients exactly what they are and are not being tested for when it comes to STDs? My doctor told me I was being tested for HPV, but she never specified that they only test for high-risk. It wasn't until years later when I specifically asked about it that she told me, and if I had known that fact originally, I would have been extra careful to not put my partners at risk during those years. I know that safe sex is each person's individual responsibility. However, I chose to have unprotected sex with my current boyfriend because my doctor indicated that it would be safe. Had she been upfront and told me exactly what I was and was not being tested for, what I might have and not know about, etc. I would have never had unprotected sex. I feel that she is partly to blame for my boyfriend's current situation because she neglected to give me basic and crucial information about my sexual health. Any thoughts?