I am 79 years old and have not been sexually active in at least 10 years. I noticed some white lumps in the groin but paid not attention because as I age I get all sorts of moles, scaly spots, etc. on my skin. Recently these lumps have spread and the last two weeks seem to be growing faster. One group looks similar to cauliflower. There is some itching but no pain. I have tried cortisone, triple anti-biotic and Lotramin. Lotramin helps the itch. I repeat I am not sexually active and have not been active for about 10 years. My husband passed away 8 years ago and sex was limited before that because he had prostate cancer surgery. I do not masturbate or have any kind of genital contact with others towels, etc. Please advise. I have made an apt with my family doctor, but would like some advice beforehand because I am so embarrassed. Thank you.