testing?

[hellokitty22]

I was just diagnosed with genital warts.  My ex and I broke up in August, and it started showing up shorly after that. A few weeks ago I had sex with one of his friends and he found out.  I told my ex what I was diagnosed with and he will not believe me that I had it while we were together, and that I didn't get it from his friend.

My question is: Is there a way for him to get tested even though they haven't shown up on him that will prove that he is a carrier?

[hellokitty22]

yeah, i didn't tell my ex that it was genital warts, i just told him i had HPV, so i really wasnt lying... i just didnt want him telling people about that and everyone know.... bc hpv sounds a lot better than genital warts.

[cocoa1979]

It's away he could get tested even though they didn't show up on him but it's more of an invasive test then ours. I know I just caught mine but am scared to really tell my boyfriend that it's sexually transmitted but it's also transmitted through skin to skin contact but he would totally deny that he gave it to me but I did let him know thgat I was diagnoed with the cervical cancer virus because that's what it is and he said he will support me in anyway possible. He told me he had a feeling something was wrong but I found thgat kind of strange as if he knows somewthing and won't tell me but I love him and he's the only man I 'm intimate with right now. Therefore, I am going to keep it that way because aving different sex partners isn't the right way to go. Unless I could of got it from my daughters father, I will never know because sometimes a pap test could be done and they won't pick the cell up at all.