fleshy growth near your anus is hemorrhoid usually happens if you sit too much on toilet for too long.This isn't dangerous , for this I did surgery in February and now there is no pain. Hemorrhoid are usual symptom in patients with IBS
Oh also iv had my 1st bigger stool in weeks much bigger then the pencil thin ones iv been having i dnt take fibre suplements every day but wen im going out my mind i take them to reasure me as stools cant get bigger if it was a obstruction
We only have 3 and u have to be referred to them the pain is mild but every day not all day but most i was given amitriptyline but they dnt work im yet to see blood but see orange/red skin like dots but aparently the fobt ruled them out as blood
Get a second opinion. Given your symptoms and level of pain it seems like more things should have been ruled out before the doctor landed on IBS. I was diagnosed years ago, but only after I had upper and lower GI series and a sigmoidoscopy to rule out inflammatory bowel, ulcers, and other problems.
Did you see a gatroenterologist or an internist/PCP... I would get a second opinion from an experienced gatroenterologist. Ask around for a respected one in your area.