whats on your bucket list???

[turkee23]

hmm we should all have a bucket list (thing we want to do b4 we go to heaven)....whats in yours????

i have sky diving, traveling to my homeland Italy and Scotland, swimming with manatee's and sea lions, i wanna go grape stopming to make wine, i would LOVE LOVE LOVE and HAVE to go see the museum that was in honor of martin luther king jr, they turned the hotel where he got shot and killed into a museum about all the struggle he went through and the change we have has because of all his efforts, i LOVE MLK jr, without him i probably wouldnt be happy with my hubby, or i would have been in jail for even looking at black men...THANK YOU MARTIN LUTHER KING Jr!!!!..... i have more just have to think about it!..... lol

[gokuangel]

oh i have had them people too i think if you see my husband you can obiviously tell he's from Mexico and still we have been in stores and there will be guys chatting in Spanish chking me out saying things about my rear end!!  i told him he should have told em off!

[turkee23]

yea we had that problem a few times with my ex, he was from panama ,but was very dark , he looked black....we would go eat at spanish places or wherever and they would NEVER think he spoke spanish and they would be talking about us in front of us in spanish.....like "oh my look at this guy and girl what losers and whatever"...he would start answering them in spanish and thier faces were PRICELESS!!!....i dont know how many free meals we got after telling the manager that his employees should be talking about people in front of them when they dont know what language they speak!!!.....dumb a$$e$

[gokuangel]

WOW! I cant believe that lil kid said that!! That is crazy!!
The only problems i have had was with my X he was Puerto Rican so he was lighter than my now husband well everywhere we used to go we NEVER got service! We would go to Dennys or I-Hop and they wouldnt come bk to the table to see what we needed or they would some how pi$$ us off enough we would walk out!! I wont even think about going to either of these places now no way!!

[turkee23]

yes i saw the same couple of MTV thats where i got the idea first but i have also seen it on other channels.... it just looks amazing....

its funny i went home yesterday and my neighbors kids were outside (there mom forgot it was a half day of school) they are kindergarden and 3rd grade, so that makes them about 5 and 8 right??....ne ways me and my hubby got home but they came running (i am the landlord i let them run the other half of the duplex) so i called their mom and gave them some snacks and we waited...... the oldest boy asked me when my hubby went inside "who is that  man you were with".. i told him "that was my husband"...THEN he said "BUT he is brown and your blonde??".......OMG an 8 year old really said that ??... i would expect that from MAYBE and elder person who grew up in that era when whites and blacks were not supposed to mix.... but not now... and the child was black... i was just im amazement he thought i was totally wrong for us to be together cause of skin color.........wow i thought that was all over with

[msmarlowe]

Here's a few things on my list:

Have babies
Get my husband in a plane.
Dance with my husband in the rain
Go to dublin, Ireland
Forgive those who have hurt me severely
Stay on an Indian Res.
Swin in Each OCEAN
See the sunrise in west coast and see it set in the east coast
See my mom sober for over a year
Finish school and become a Social worker
Do missionary work in Africa

Ok so those are just a few items on my list

[gokuangel]

i saw a lil bit of it on TV this couple on MTV went there it looked very interesting!!

I know what you mean about family mine doesnt like the fact i have always dated Hispanic men! My family insists they are too controlling! I hate when we meet people and they go oh wow you're so white and hes dark!! Its kinda like DUH really i didnt notice! I dont even think about it i even forget that my babies will be Bi-racial then im like oh wow they will be!

[turkee23]

that museum just amazes me!!!... i see it on tv and i know if i go there i will cry ... i have always dated black men even against my grand parents who were born same year as MLK 1929 and they didnt think it was right.... but thanks to him we are all pretty much brown now!...we can make bi-racial babies and hold hands with whoever we want!!!....

thank you MLK!!!!

[gokuangel]

I wanna see Disney Land ROFL!! Ok it sounds dumb but c'mon i aint got 5K $$ to hop on a plane over to Orlando!!

Traveling is at the top of my list I wanna see the Pocono's and I wanna go to Japan and to Hawaii!

I like your idea Turkee i have been interested myself in seeing that museum!

[MJIthewriter]

I'd love to see the Grand Canyon and Amazon Rain forest, and take pictures though chances of traveling are pretty slim. Especially considering how fast they cut down trees there. There probably won't be a rain forest by the time I can afford to travel there. :(