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I am 59 yrs old and am nearly finished menopause.   One of my problems is that my dr sees menopause as a pathology, a disease.  Although I had always thought of menopause as just a "natural" phase of a female's life, this dr's attitude makes me feel that I am no longer a woman, just a walking pathology with nothing to look forward to but bodily and mental decay.  She does not appear to listen when I tell her about any problems and tends to send me for intrusive tests.   I want to take care of my health but this dr makes me so anxious, by her comments and her actions ever since I became menopausal, I feel like I have one foot in the grave.  Any suggestions?

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Thank you for your suggestion.  I have been looking for a new dr.  I don't know where you are but I'm in Toronto, Ontario Canada we have a real shortage of drs - they are all going down to the USA.  It might take some time but I'll keep looking.

Rottie

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Yes, CHANGE DOCTORS! No doctor should ever make you feel that uncomfortable.
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