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I am writing to see if this is abnormal. My penis is only about 2 inches long and when erect it is about 4 inches and very small in girth. This has often caused me emotional problems and is there anything that can be done about it. I know it is not enough to provide satisfaction to my wife, any suggestions appreciated.
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I'd cut off one of my toes to be the proud owner of a 10 inch girthy monster and if a woman was scared away from it then that would be fine by me...
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139792 tn?1498585650
Vagina is sensitive up to two inches only.Hence erected penis of 2 inches is more than enough to satisfy any woman .vagina is stretchable. It can accommodate bigger penis but it does not give extra pleasure.So please do not worry about the length of penis.
During intercourse one has to wait(stop pumping) for some time to lengthen the intercourse- time.For this withdraw penis up to half inch into vaginal(near the mouth of vagina)(The ridge of the penis knob and this muscle band fies nicely giving enjoyment to female and rest to the penis) At half an inch area there is some muscle like band by which female can grasp penis.This can be used as penis-stand for waiting This gives immense pleasure to female.
Another tip. Make up and down movement of penis by contracting your PC muscle(The muscle you contract to stop urine).This contraction will have vertical movement which will be liked by female.In turn she can contract her pc muscle which will contract her vagina.This can be done alternatively by male and female establishing rhythm. This will require some practice.before you experiment. ..
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Ha'way man. Chill. Be creative, never forget the foreplay. Its so important. And, like they say, be creative and bring out the sex tool in you. All for love, and ,of course, satisfaction.

Great topic, ciao. :)
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I have now a bf with a big penis but he doesn't like to use condoms, they hurt him he says, that's why we couldnt have penetration till now... for this and the experience with other bfs I believe that size is not important.. or that at least it is better to have a promedium penis than a big one... but more important than that is what you do with it.. the positions you use, the techniques, if you have a good libido, if you feel oral, or if you are creative...  I have always liked the doggie because I can/could rub my clit meanwhile that .. and it doesnt matter the size of my partner.. in fact the males that better in the bed with me weren't the ones with a bigger penis.. were the ones with more libido, better ideas, more creative, and oral (because I like kisses a lot).. somehow males with medium (or small) penis are usually the ones with more libido, the ones with it erected and ready to be pleased   ; )
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mikey- your wife married you because she loves you.  i just started dating a man who is big and tall and handsome, and i was expecting a big penis. but it wasn't big at all - about 4 inches.  we slept together recently and to be totally honest - i was shocked, disappointed & not satisfied.  but i still like him a lot because he's got a great personality.  so now i'm looking up info to see if we can still have a good sex life together, because he is a really kind and sweet man and i really like him. it's hard to find a good man like him.  i realize that i should be open minded & give it a try to find creative ways to help him please me.  i'm sure it's possible.  nobody's perfect in every way, right?
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dude, i'm 7 inches and then sum, and i'v had girls tell me it was too big for them to have intercourse, talk about a sucky
ass day, to be turned down cause i was too big !  and i see
porn stars with massive units, how do they get along ?
your cool man, don't let it bother you, things could be worse !
i had a buddy get his busted off in a downhill biking accident.
                          l.e.
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I have to agree with Oceans on this one.  Nine inches would put me out the door with fear and anxiety.  I think 5 to 6 inches is probably the normal range for most men in the US.  And if she's telling you that she's not happy with that, move on, she will never be happy.  What a horrible thing to say to the man you love.  Let me just reitterate, NO WAY WOULD I DO A NINE INCHER, EVER!

You are normal and need to quit obsessing about this.
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just wanted to say thanx to you for your encouraging comments.
like i said before, my penis is only 5 inches in legnth, fully erect but your comments make me feel like i shouldn't sweat it so much and just concentrate on what goes into the over-all effort of satisfying a woman.
i should make foreplay intense so that by the time my penis enters the picture, she's almost there already.
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I'm the same way!  My boyfriend is 7 inches too and when we first started having sex it was really painful and I got these cuts that took a long time to heal.  Now I'm used to it but I wouldn't say sex is more or less enjoyable than with my previous boyfriend whose penis was 5.5 inches.  In my opinion, and I think the majority of women would agree with me, the act of intercourse is fun but the actual pleasure comes from other things that have nothing to do with penis size, such as oral and other forms of foreplay.
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Let me say this. My husband is a little over 7in when fully erect. Sometimes I wish he wasnt so big! Sex hurts sometimes, and we have to take it easy more often than not. Having a big penis isn't always what its cracked up to be. I agree with the other posters, if she is happen, no worries. Like many others have said, there are so many other ways to enjoy sex and sexual activities that the size of your penis shouldnt be an issue. As long as you are working it right!! :o)
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hey all. about the 'small penis' topic, i am a very tall 6 feet, 6 inches in height so my small penis(3"-flacid, 5"-erect) is not at all proportionate to my exceptional height.
some times when i'm in the heat of intercourse, i feel myself wishing that i could drive my penis deeper, but being unable to.
women have always complimented the girth of my penis, but i've never been satisfied with my length and i've only been able to satisfy half the women i've had sex with.
when will a safe and effective way to enlarge the penis become widely available?
if i had a meer 3 inches more in length, i'd feel like a stud.
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Oceans: lol, exactly what I was thinking re: mothers' comment.

There is no way to increase the size of your penis. All those ads are just playing on people's insecurities. And when they don't work as promised, how many guys are going to say so? How many guys are going to sue these companies? Surgery used to be an option, but most guys ended up with less than an extra inch and a lumpy penis to boot. Not a lot of satisfied patients. Most surgeons stay far, far away from penis enlargement surgery.

Seriously, penis size doesn't matter to most women. Since sex is WAY more than just intercourse, since only about 30% of women can orgasm through intercourse alone, and since the clitoris, not the vagina, is analogous to the penis in terms of sensitivity, penis size is pretty irrelevant. There are many other skills that are far more important. Oral, hands and toys come to mind ;-) I think that women who insist upon large penises tend to be pretty sex-negative and probably wouldn't make particularly good partners. However, sometimes it's fun to play with size, and it's no reflection on your partner's penis size at all. At those times, you can always supplement intercourse with a larger toy. But again, I stress that it's not a reflection on your partner's penis size at all.
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hey there mikey listen alot of people say that size doesnt matter and that its how you use it but people are really just trying to be nice when they say that bacause most people know that size does matter and 4 inches erect sounds kind of small to me seeing that average is around 6 but the important thing is is your wife satisfied with it thats what really matters and if she is then you have nothing to worry about but if she isnt then maybe you should try some thing and see if you can gain a couple more inches. there are alot of penis enlargement systems out there maybe you should consider one of them and see if it works. the point that im trying to make is that if your not satisfied with something then change it if it makes you feel better and improves your life. i hope youre not offended by any of my comments im just being truthful thats all. im not gonna lie to you like all the rest of these people are im being honest to you and hey goodluck i hope you solve your problem.
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that may be a bit smaller but if you know how to work it dont matter what i am told,i am 7 inches when errect! but like the last post we are all in different shapes and sizes..your alright go out and have some fun and sex is only a small part, your personality is way more man.

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