WHAT HAPPENS IF YOU STOP MASTURBATING

[blueeyedboy192002]

as mentioned what happens if you just don't masturbate?

do your testies get bigger?

i have only ever had one wet dream and i have gone 4 weeks without a pull..... what happens if you just don't wank

does anyone not wank?

i usually do it at least twice a day

[leviht]

What happen doing mastrubating?

[musicster]

IT is good to hear from some here. First of all you have to find out or share with us your fear, that why you are leaving you habit of masturbation. Since you are 63 and i must say that it is very long time. I Think should have realize every time you try to stop masturbation that what will happen if you stop wont stop you. Like you said that you fell better after 1 week. It is all in our mind. If you go for 3 week or 1 month then you can do it :D

[Labsfwb]

I am 63 and have been a chronic masturbator all my life starting at 11 before I could even ejaculate.  I had a healthy sex life in college and married very young at 21 and am still married to the same lady many years later.  We have not had sex or touched in probably 15 to 20 years.  I detest her smoking and her dislike for sex. We had kids quite late 35 and 42 so our daughter is just graduating college.  I have had a serious addiction to porno for easily 35 years and my fetishes have gotten more finite with each passing year.  I love big ****, red lips and nails and watching a womans vagina close up.  I found this website about a month ago and have since quite masturbating for a week but have fallen short each Sat and returned to the live porno models for my fetishes.  I did experience a renewed rational interest toward normal women and even looking at my wife differently but reverted to my porno for satisfaction.  I had radiation and seed implantation for prostate cancer, stage one, and now have dry ejaculation but have recovered to defeat the cancer.  I also have the genetic flaw of bph so it further complicates my urinating and sexual performance.  I am very active and play tennis five times a week.  I am not happy emotionally with my marriage and want to be single again, not for sexual reasons, but for my own freedom and doing things that I want to do.  We have had a very emotionally split relationship for many years and have had to stay together for the children and now that is approaching it finality.  I will retire in three years and really dont care about money but my wife is totally dependent on me for her life.  I would love to be able to quit the porno and masturbation permanently to see if I could return to normal sexual functioning.  I have had NO success with any pill, viagra and all of them but have long ago realized that I have a psychological problem and not a physical one.  Love to hear some feedback from anyone with a similiar situation.  I also joined the man to man prostate cancer support group and was very hahppy with the decision I made for cancer treatment.  bph becomes an increasing problem of greater potentail with age paralleling the frequency of prostate cancer.  I need to quit but am seriously dependent on my columbian ladies on xvideoslive.com............lack the will power to stop.  I do feel better physically when I did stop for a week at a time...........now it is sunday and I am starting all over.  I have an enormous sexual drive and always have had.  I am all ears and waiting for some feedback ...........anyone out there.
thanks

[musicster]

I have read your post. Some post has given me a strong will to stop the masturbation Addiction and some did not but i would like you guys to best of luck and try to stopped it.

I'm here because Im addicted to masturbation and porn as well. I could stop watching porn or not to masturbate for a long time. It is that im just to scared to stop masturbating. Because 3 years back i was working at the grocery store at night. And those days when i had decided to stop the masturbation and watching porn. And i decided to stop it now. I was so happy that i could make it. But right after 3 week while on stopping my habit, i was standing, working happily at the store suddenly i start feeling dizzy, and my heart rate went up and i got scared so much. I could not breath and start having a panic attack. I feel like Im going to die. My heart rate was so high. Since that im scared to stop masturbating. Although at that time i was taking a medication for my heart palpitation as well. After that incident i went to the doctor and they have told me that i did not took a medication and that was a cause of dizziness, and panic attack. Now it is been 2 years. I have stopped taking medication for my heart palpitation and feeling much much better then before. But my only concern that. If i stopped masturbation, will i have that be feeling of dizziness, heart rate or panic attack? Or am i thinking too much.

I want you guys to tell me for those who have been stopped masturbating for 1 or 2 month.did you guys have any hard time or difficulty like feeling of dizziness or something else. If it is please share it. I need answer.

[flexiplan]

Haven't posted on here for a while.  Just wanted to report that once again, I haven't masturbated or had sex for 27 days.  Haven't really noticed any effects from the abstinence yet.  Had one wet dream which occurred after getting my 20th clean day.

The post above by SpanishTrampoline is a little concerning in that he developed prostate problems possibly due to his abstinence.  I am hoping to get sex soon though (just not with prostitutes as I've had enough of paying for it).

Unlike my period of abstinence last time early last year, I haven't been abstaining from watching porn though.  It's an activity I enjoy although I don't watch that much (just basically collect a lot of overpriced DVDs!).

[Ducati54]

Hi everyone I've been dealing with the same exact thing as many of the commenters have. I'm 20 years old and a college student. A little bit of background. I had been yankin the hang low daily, at times more than once in day. Like everyone else I felt 'at ease,' after having done so. In retrospect; too at ease. This self stimulating habit was coupled with porn during most occasions. After having finished with the use of porn, I felt not only relieved sexually but in its place I felt depressed and 'hollow.' During this time frame of habitual yankin I had to motivation, wasn't happy, no urge to meet women i.e. too nervous and ashamed to approach women.

I've decided to tackle this head on for good and have been. I feel way more motivated and have a genuine feeling of ease and confidence in myself. Now, the sexual tension is present no question. Though I simply utilize and embrace it for what it is and that is, a challenge. The differences between yankin it daily to not doing it at all are palpable. I enjoy the tease that comes from seeing an attractive woman because it reminds of why I'm abstaining in the first place and that is because while yankin it like a mad dog I never really got wound when I saw said woman. Its refreshing to see a real life, living, breathing woman at grocery store purchasing cereal and get turned on haha. Being dependent on any one thing for satisfaction broke me down; though abstaining from that very thing, well, will build you right back up.

Now with all this being said; everyone needs to find their 'trigger,' their wake up call if you will. For me it was coming to the understanding that masturbation may not be necessarily 'normal.' Now before you turn away, take from this what you can and want. I had come across this article written by Marina Robinson that served as my 'trigger'.

Here's the link:
http://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/cupids-poisoned-arrow/201105/weird-masturbation-habits

It's made me really grasp just how strange something considered 'normal' may really be; I found it very humbling and am running with it. Maybe you will to.