5 weeks and miscarried

[lahm08]

Ok, so my husband and i have been trying to get pregnant for about a year now. and we found out i was 5 weeks pregnant 6/10/09, then on 6/15/09 i was in the hosptial all day that day and found out i had a miscarriage. This was our first. So i guess my questions are 1.) When would be a good time to try again? and 2.) Is it possibly that this will happen again?

[lahm08]

thanks. my husband and i have sat down and talked about everything and weve figured alot of things out. we are both ready to try again. he thought that i wasnt ready and i thought he wasnt ready but we talked bout it and decided. and also when GODS ready for us to be parents he will bless us with a baby. the good thing is, is that we both know we both can have kids. he was afraid he couldnt have any kids. but found out he could and so can i. but thanks for everything. hope all works out for you guys.

[kaydiane]

Hiya

My Husband and I waited a little while the first time because my body didn't return to normal, emotionally It took about 6months but I didn't realise that until I came out of the Low if that makes sense. we were still trying during that time and it took about 18mths before I was pregnant again.

After our second M/c we got straight back to it and were pregnant within weeks, the third time I think we waited a few weeks until I got my period but it took us 7mths to get pregnant.

Your husband maybe a little scared and also he might see things in you that you are unaware of . Try talking to him again, ask him to try and explain why he feels you aren't ready yet.

Fingers crossed you can get the bottom of why he is feeling this way and work a solution. xxxx

[xMrsHyslopx]

Hi, Im so sorry to hear of your loss! In response to your questions It really is a decision you and your husband have to make together I think cos he needs time to grieve aswell. I had my m/c in march and didnt start trying straight away although i wish now I had i dont think I was mentally ready im still struggling to cope just now! As for it happening again I wish i could answer that I really do Im currently 4 weeks pregnant and praying my baby will make it this time! Ive just gotta hope and pray! I wish you and your husband all the luck in the world xxxxxxxxxx

P.s please take the time to grieve dont bottle it up I know that pain its unbearable i felt my husband was best person to talk to cos I felt he was the only one who knew what the pain was like xxxx

[lahm08]

thanks. sorry to hear that. ive tried talking to my husband and telling him that its our decision on when to try again. and he doesnt think im ready to go thru that again. how do i tell him that i am ready to go thru that. i explain to him that i wasnt that far along so it didnt hurt me as much as it would of if i was further along. but he still doesnt understand.

[kaydiane]

Hi

Sorry about your sad news.

To answer your questions -  The advice I have always been given by the NHS & my specialist is to try again when I feel physically and mentally ready.

There is no reason at all why you shouldn't go on to have a happy healthy baby.

as a guide they say 1 miscarriage happens to approx 50% of women , some happen so early they go undetected.

I have had 3 possibly having my 4th now but I am in a very small % of people approx 1.5% only have recurrent miscarriage.

I hope you and your husband start to heal and I wish you much luck xxxx