Advice or Comfort PLEASE

[amy8702]

I am looking for maybe some comfort or advice here. In Sept 2010 I had my first miscarriage. It wasn't painful at that time. Then in Oct 2010 I had a pos pg test. Went to my Dr and she did my HCG levels then again 2 days later, and they were rising. So I went on thinking I was in fact pregnant. In Dec 2010 I went for my first u/s to meet the baby. They u/s tech wouldn't tell me anything except to call my Dr. So I did and she told me that they couldn't see anything except tissue. So they scheduled me for a D&C. In May of this year I found out I was pregnant again. Things seem to be going great but at about 6 weeks I had a very painful miscarriage. My HCG levels were fallowed back down. 4 days ago I found out again, I am pregnant. But I'm scared. We want another baby so bad but I'm worried its going to end in a miscarriage. If it helps at all I have a 2 year old son where I had a near perfect pregnancy with. Has anyone experienced something similar? Please help

[trying43]

So sorry for ur loss.

[amy8702]

I just want to thank you for you're support. I got my answer, I'm having a miscarriage.... Again.

[amy8702]

And, I had a tiny bit of spotting today but it looked like old blood. I'm sooo confused.

[amy8702]

So I went for two bhcg tests first one was 109 second was 89. That was 5 days ago since the last and still no miscarriage symptoms

[kid_shuichi]

Pregnancy is supposed to be the most natural thing that a woman can do but it always seems so complicated.... I hope the best for you, and I can't imagine how you are getting through everything. I'd probably be ripping someone's hair out

[amy8702]

And I know its not left ove HCG from my last miscarriage because my level was fallowed back down. It was actually at 2 a couple days after my miscarriage

[amy8702]

I went for bloodwork a few days ago and my level came back at 109. So, I went again yesterday and I have to wait til Monday for the results

[kid_shuichi]

I was trying to do the math but it seems unlikely there was any HGC left over... 3 false positives?! That's rare! Usually a positive, even a faint on is well Positive. Even if the pregnancy was chemical... I'd try and see a doctor anyways.

[amy8702]

So, I went to the Dr today to confirm my pregnancy and get a referrel for an OBGYN. The Dr did a urine test and told me it was negative and that I'm not pregnant. Although, I've taken 3 HPT he says they're all false positives!! I'm soooooo confused because even if they were false positive why haven't I got my period yet?

[kid_shuichi]

I don't encourage this nor do I recommend it but what I did was to do my own research and order for myself what i knew my doctors should be giving me, I'm young (21)  so "fertility drug" is a taboo with my doctor but sometimes I feel so trapped inside my own head if I don't take matters into my own hands I'll go crazy :)

[amy8702]

Thank you for replying. Even though I have a history I have to have 3 miscarriages or a lot of money for them to run tests. So, I'm just trying to keep my hopes high. I told my fiance that if this does go sour at least we'll hopefully get answers.

[kid_shuichi]

I wish there was something I could say to this. I had a MC in Sep2010 as well but as far as getting preg again its just been one problem after the next ending in the fact that I don't ovulate most months out of the year. It seems odd that your body seems to reject the pregnancy but there are loads of things your doctor can do especially with your history. Obviously let them know right away about your concerns and don't be afraid to be aggressive! This is another life and if they get their butts in gear there must be something they can do. I wish you the best of luck and please let me know if everything turns out ok?