hi,
i had 3 m/c's before i had my dd in feb 09, then i went on to have my 4th in nov'10 and now im waiting to m/c agen, i was ment to be 7.5 weeks last thursday i went for a u/s and it showed that baby had not rele grown and didnt have a hb, i was given the choice to wait and m/c at home or have a DnC i picked to go home and hope things happend on its own but if still not had any bleeding or pain, still feel sick, brest hurt, tired, bloated ect.... im worried iv made the right choice to do this at home but i didnt want anouther DnC and i had the most horried experance last time, also iv never had any tests as to why i m/c, i was told after my 3rd loss to take 75mg of asprin so i took that along with pregnancy vits and my dh also took vits aswell and we managed to have my dd but this time the baby wasnt planned so i only started the asprin when i found out i was pregnant, do you think that because i didnt take it before conception i lost the baby? although it wasnt planned it was very very wanted when i found out and im heartbroken that its happend agen, dh wants to try agen with asprin and vits like we did when i had our dd but im so scared about m/c that i dont think i could take the pain of it agen, i dont know if i sould give it anought shot and do things like before or have some test done to see if there is a problem with me, i just feel like i dont want to wait to ttc agen and if i have the tests i know there will be a wait before we can ttc, i just dont know what to do! im still in shock its happend aagen and scared to death about bleeding because it means its all over if that makes any sense!