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I'M PREGNANT ONE MONTH AFTER A MISCARRIAGE

I HAD A MISCARRIAGE ON NOVEMBER 16TH.  IT WAS CALLED A CHEMICAL PREGNANCY BECAUSE I WAS ONLY ABOUT 4 1/2 WEEKS. (BASICALLY IT WAS LIKE GETTING MY PERIOD 5 DAYS LATER THAN NORMAL. NO CRAMPING AND NO D&C NECESSARY.) NOW IT IS A MONTH LATER ALL LAST WEEK HAD SLIGHT CRAMPING LIKE I WOULD BE GETTING A/F.  TOOK A TEST AND I'M PREGNANT!  I'M EXCITED, BUT SLIGHTLY NERVOUS THAT I COULD MISCARRY AGAIN. ALWAYS NERVOUS WHEN I GO TO THE BATHROOM THAT I MIGHT SEE BLOOD.  HAS THIS HAPPENED TO ANYONE ELSE?  ANYTHING I CAN DO TO INCREASE CHANCES OF NOT LOSING THIS ONE?
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Going through the exact same thing.  Miscarried mid october and got pregnant in November.  I just had an ultrasound yesterday and there is a heart beat. First pregnancy I see was just not meant to be and happy to move forward with this one.  I understand the anxiousness for sure.  Once you see or hear the heartbeat you will be relieved.
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Hey Everyone I am only 19 yrs old. I have recently lost my baby. I had a positive pregnancy test on Oct.5.2015. soon after i went to the hospital and was told it was comfirmed that i was currently pregnant.later they did an ulrtrasound and told me that they couldn't see any pregnancy so i was referred to an obgyn. when i went to the obgyn i had done another ultrasound and soon found out that the pregnancy wasn't in my uterus it was actually in my tube. My hcg level was at 18 and soon went up to around 60 and kept incresing by very little. before finding out i was pregnant i was currently bleeding. later i was told that i would have to be admmited to the hospital on the night before halloween. when i was discharge from the hospital i had soon passed my baby a week or two later. but now i have recently took a pregnancy test about two weeks ago or so and my test was negative. although recently just yesterday 11/23/2015 i took another pregnancy test and found out i am pregnant. i really dont understand is this really possible . if so im greatful for another oppurtunity
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I had a miscarriage a few weeks ago and my doctor says that there is no physical reason why you can't try again right away.  He says that if you need time to heal emotionally, take the time you need and then try.  Now it's another story if you have a DNC, you should wait 2 normal cycles if you've had the procedure so that you can heal physically.
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I found out I was pregnant on 11/28/13 I lost my baby at two months 01/16/14...This was my first pregnancy .Me and my hubby have been trying for 11 years..this was my first pregnancy out of 11 years  I want to conceive again knowing that. I can do it which I did without fertility help this was a natural pregnancy. I have been waiting to get my period know for a month and it still hasn't come on I do have pcos which I had a period every month last year up until I got pregnant. I am anxious to get pregnant again is it normal to wait this long for a period the doctor been gave the green light to start trying. I did a pregnancy test which it was negative . what should I do
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I do believe that their is hope aswell last yr in DEC I had a miscarriage when I didn't even know I was pregnant and then this Year in may I got pregnant again and had another miscarriage that time it really affected me because it happened two times in a row and I started to believe I couldn't have anymore children I have one daughter at this appoint and time after the two miscarriages I got pregnant AGAIN a month later and I didn't know until I was rushed to the emergency due to a horrible pain in my ovaries come to find out it was a ECTOPIC pregnancy after that I was completely done mentally with having children because it was just horrible experiences over and over and over, BUT when me and my boyfriend finally stopped trying I got pregnant AGAIN 1 month in a half after the ectopic pregnancy and it was a SUCCESS now im 5 MONTHS pregnant with a Baby boy and so far everything has been great so I say keep trying because it is possible and I defiantly think he's a blessing for us because we went thru a lot having 4 failed pregnancies in less then a yr and then on the 5th a success
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yes there is hope, I had I baby then I had a miscarriage and was pregnant again after 2 months and had another baby girl. unfortunately after another 5 years of trying for a baby, I got pregnant and have just had another miscarriage. Obviously its traumatising and very sad but I would still say don't give up hope.  My sisters both had misscarriages with their first pregnancys only and went on to have successful pregnancies after their first time.  Good luck and keep trying xxx
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I miss carried at around 5 weeks last month and have been bleeding since! Found out last week a am pregnant again meanin I must of conceived two weeks after my misscarriage, however I'm still bleeding, not constantly but enough to worry me! Have been trying to stay posative but I'm so scared it's happening again any thoughts on this ladies?? X
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As an RN, I strongly recommend that you visit your physician. During a miscarriage,you will experience strong cramping, heavy bleeding, and will pass tissue. If you were only a few weeks pregnant you will not actually see a fetus. If you know, or think you have had, a miscarriage, you need to confirm that you passed all the tissue with an ultrasound to prevent infection. This would require you seeing your physician.  I also had a miscarriage earlier this month, and the best thing to do now is to take care of yourself. I wish you all the best of luck and good health.
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helo everyone, I recently miscarriaged one month on last saturday 26th october. i was waiting for the bby come out naturally but until today, the bby still not come out. what can i do? because i was afraid of to see doctor. is it any other solution?
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I am in the same boat I found out I m.c on sep 30,2013 so I can relate to u
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hi everyone, ok well me and my partner have been ttc now for 4 months and two months ago I had a MMC so I had to go into hospital and have it removed with a DNC,  then last month I had a MC at home at about 4 weeks and this month I am pregnant again and I would be the same about 4 to 5 weeks and im bleeding again now red blood with slight back ache. im so worried that me and my partner are even compatable to have children. but all I want to do is have a family with him. I have two little girls already from someone else and he also has a little girl from someone else so we both know that we can have children and I can clearly get pregnant it just never goes over 10 weeks. can anyone help :(
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I have a 5 year old son, and have been trying to conceive another child and found out in april that i was pregnant but at my 12w ultrasound appointment i was told my baby had passed away at 9w1d and i was devastated :( I had no symptoms at all and i had a D&C the same day on 25th June and got my first period a few weeks later. Its now October and ive just found out im 5w pregnant and im so scared im going to lose this one too had a heavy crampy feeling not sure if its implantation or what??!!! trying to stay positive and put it in gods hands but im terrified of losing this wee one so soon after losing my angel baby
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Hi ladies I wondered if anyone can offer any advise. Back in June I had a MMC at 9 weeks, my baby had died at 7.5 weeks. I've now just found out that I'm pregnant again, around 4 weeks. My period would of been due 3 days ago & the past two days I've been having a light bleed. I've been told it could be implantation bleeding! Im not cramping or in any pain and the bleed us nothing like a period! I've also got no other pregnancy symptoms and as you can imagine I'm pretty scared I'm losing this baby too :( x
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I had a miscarriage 5 weeks ago and when I finally stopped bleeding two weeks after I had the miscarraige I had sex three time. on sept 3 then sept 22 then sept 24. Then I started to bleed on sept 26 and I thought it was my first period sense the miscarriage. But for some reason it was really light I don't even have to change the pad. But the cramps were painful so I took some meds for that. But for some reason my period is kinda stopping at 1:35 in the morning on sept 27. I'm just confused on to why my first period is so light and my thighs had gone kinda numb when i walk and I have to run to the bathroom like every two house or so to go per. i just don't feel right can anyone help?
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hi my name is jessie i had a miscarriege on this month of sept, and i had alot of cramping and then i started bleeding after with few clots not alot but i couldn't take the cramping. so the following week i went to my dr and she said the same i had miscarried and to go back in six weeks to check my blood levels. but just keep on trying.
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Hi can any1 help basicually had miscarraged 3 months ago had a dnc then had 1 period what lasted 4 days I was ment to come on 10th of march but I am now 15 days  late every test I do is negative what could this be
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I had 2 m/c in 2009 then got pregnant in 2010 with my now 16 month old son. Me and my  soul mate are ready for a second child. I found out on October 26th by a hpt i was pg but only a week later went to the health department and got a negative test. then suffered a 3rd m/c. Now a month later i'm  getting positive hpt but I've spotted three times. Nothing heavy but in so worried :/
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I had 2 miscarriages within 6 months also so I know what kind of pain you felt..hopefully you've had a beautiful baby by now
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I miscarried at 4 weeks from Sept 3-9 and it has been three weeks and my Husband and I are trying to conceive again but I was just given a job offer where I would stand for 8 hours a day...is this okay? or can it cause another miscarriage?
#nervous
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On june 11th i had my first ultrasound i got to see my baby, and i saw the heartbeat.  i was in-and out of the hospital bc i was having a lot of pain in my lower stomach and lower back and everytime i went they told me i was fine and that it was just the baby stretching my utrus...well on june 28th i was hurting really bad i called the doctor and they told me to lay down and out a heating pad on and try and rest.. i went upstairs to lay my kids down for their nap and my son starts yelling mommy mommy your bleeding. i was bleeding so bad i went into the bathroom and i couldnt get up i had lost so much blood i got rush to the hospital. they gave me an ultrasound ... to only found out that my baby was not okay and now no loger had a heartbeat... my husband and i was so excited for  this baby and was crushed  when we found out the news i had my D&C the same night.   the thing that bothers me was the fact that i was in the hospital 3 other times and they said everything was fine.. when i was giving my ultrasound on the 28th they said my baby was only 7 1/2-8 weeks preg. when i should have been 10 1/2 weeks so this means started to mis-carry sometime after my first ultrasound... it has been 11 days since my miscarrige when is it okay to have sex again?
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Hi i'm 17 i've been with my (first) partner for over two years and  i was just wondering as this was a year ago how long did it take you to get pregnant again my waters broke at 19 weeks and i was told my special little girl would die i took the pill they advised me to take and was born 2 days later i've been brought up with all kids and everyone was born ok and my my had 9 out of 13 but due to miscarriage not waters braking confused ??
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Hi my names Ashley believe me you can get pregnant that soon i had a d&c on may 2nd 2012 and just found out today 06/15/12 that im pregnant again that mean i got pregnant a week after my miscarrige. So believe me you could be
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Hi
I had two miscarriages one on Feb.6 I was 8 Weeks and I got pregnant right away had another miscarriage on march 29 im pregnant again and idk what to do or where to go I never got checked after my  miscarriages can someone help me im scared of having another miscarriage
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hi!  thank you so much for sharing your advice.  You have no clue how much of heartache you have saved so may women.  I am sorry for your losses.  I miscarried mid apr 2012 and it was identical tiwn girls at 18 weeks.  The pain of empty arms and an empty womb just draws me time and again to try without waiting - exactly why I visited this page.  Success stories are great to hear - I wish every mom to be a healthy delivery and baby, but your advice is so precious - God bless you for your selfless help.   Thanks.
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