What next!

[pinkycaz7]

Had a M/C, so hard to deal with that I never stopped crying for days.
Can't believe so many of us has had to go through something so terrible.

But now what happens? When do I start trying? Is there anything I have to be careful with?

Thanks for reading my messages x x x x

[pinkycaz7]

Thank you for all your lovely messages.
New year new start for me. I am ready to start trying agian, i have ovulated and had a period so i am feeling back to normal.

Time is the key to it all after MC, days,weeks go by and it makes you stronger. I am now at the stage where i am ready to fight for what i want again. Yes i have had bad days that i cry but they are now very few and far between. I have alot of frineds that have fallen and a birth in the family that was hard to deal with but still i am standing here thinking positive again.

All of my friends are months gone and how i deal with that is i look at it as there lives, my baby will be mine and it will be my life.

I am excited what this year holds 2011 is going to be my year to fall and i am sending all the baby dust in the world to all thoses who have been trying and feel like there is no hope. They say things happen for reasons and believe me that is so harsh at times but that is life i guess.

Take care and love to all

Caroline x x x x


P.S. they just said Victoria Beckham is pregnant again, another one! x x x

[Bahamutess]

Sorry, the last post was mostly for you pinky, but it applies to all of you, as well. Good luck ladies!

[Bahamutess]

I'm so sorry for your loss. I know it never helps when people say, "sorry" and you can't describe the pain you're going through. I had two miscarriages, one in 2008 and one in April. Just know that there will be an angel watching over you and your future children.

Give yourself time. I waited for a few months after April to start again because I needed the time to heal. In July, we found out we were pregnant again and I was thrilled but nervous at the same time. I think the longer you wait to try again, the easier it is on you mentally for the next time to try. Everyone is different, but I felt a few months gave me the peace of mind I needed, while also giving my body a chance to recover.

I'm going to be putting this in most of my posts because it helped me through the early weeks of this pregnancy. When you are pregnant again, buy an AngelSounds off of Amazon. It's a cheap doppler for like 30 bucks and it works so well. It will put your mind at ease if you ever get nervous about the baby.

Make sure that you have a good exercise routine and healthy diet after, so that you can build your body back up for the next pregnancy and keep taking those vitamins! Honestly, I wish I had worked out a little more because my belly is getting quite heavy!

[Liljs]

Hi, I am sorry to hear about all of you on here with your sad losses.  I have also had a miscarriage on 12/11/10 at 12 weeks and have good days and bad days.  I delivered the fetus and arranged a small burial within the church we got married in.  This does help a little as I have a place to visit and have quiet thoughts and I am lucky that I have two other children.  I suppose that because I had no problems with my last two pregnancies, I didn't anticipate the thought of a miscarriage with my third and it hit me really hard, but we are now looking at trying to concieve again as I am not getting any younger.  Will be 36 this month and don't want to leave it too late!  Good luck to you all with ttc, etc.

Lil

[twinbabies]

Hi! I am so sorry for you loss. I had a miscarriage two weeks ago. I had my post-op today. I did pretty good for the first week, but this week has been really hard. I hope it gets better soon. My doctor told me to go ahead and start trying after I get my first period.
Part of me wants to immediately start trying and another part wants to never try again. I don't think I could go through this again. My heart and admiration goes out to all the woman in this forum, especially those who has had several miscarriages.

Take care of yourself and if you need someone to talk to - I am here :-)

[mjmom69]

I'm so sorry for your loss. It will get better. Try to take some time to let yourself heal mentally and physically. Talk to your doctor and you'll be ready to try again before you know it. Take care.

[shand78]

Is this your first miscarriage? If so and no risk factors were identified, most doctors say wait 2 to 3 normal cycles to try again. I know you are probably anxious, but trust me, give your body and mind time to recover.  I would continue to take a prenatal with DHA and also folic acid supplements, it will help your body be prepared to try again. Very important, don't blame yourself and try not to drive yourself crazy asking why, not good for you. Best wishes!