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Just can't seem to get over this..
Hey ladies. I had a miscarriage on the 22nd of August this year at nine weeks five days and I just can't seem to get over it, me and my partner have been trying ever since but with no positive results.. I still wake up every morning and cry thinking about the baby I lost, I can't control myself. I randomly just break down all the time. I feel awful and crazy. I don't know what to do.. I would be half way threw this pregnancy if it hadn't happened.. I just want my baby back. Am I crazy?
I'm sorry for your loss. It's going to take some time to get over the grief you are feeling. You cannot rush thru the grief or not deal with it because it will make you sick. There is no set time that you should feel better by either. I miscarried at 9.3 weeks on August 12th. We would of been half way thru too. We have to rely on IVF and so far we haven't had the chance to try again yet. If you need to talk PM me. Maybe we can get thru this together. Please know your not crazy and these feelings are valid after having such a traumatic loss. I hope that your able to conceive again very soon and your prayers are answered for a healthy pregnancy and baby.
Thankyou for responding. :) I would love to talk it out with someone who understands the way I feel.
I'm sorry about your loss. I have lost 5, the most recent in August as well. With each of them, I reacted differently. I totally went off the deep end when I lost my son at 20 weeks. I was pregnant with twins but lost the first at 9 weeks. My Dr had me take maternity leave to have the time to grieve. When I went back to work, a co-worker just announced that she was pregnant.....ohhh I was so hateful towards her, which was unlike me. I haven't been like that since and have yet to make it farther than 7 weeks. Now, we have to wait until the end of November before they can run tests and to make a game plan on trying again.
No, you're not crazy and you have to give yourself the time. I hope you find comfort soon!!
No, you're not crazy and you have to give yourself the time. I hope you find comfort soon!!
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