worry wart?

[twokids19]

I have had a mc before, that was about 4 years ago & I was 12weeks along.  We have 2 beautiful healthy children now & I feel blessed to have them.  As does every woman, I know my body, so when my cycle was late by 1 day I took an ept, came out postive, shocked, but delighted.  As w/ my other 2 children, I was sick as a dog f/ the entire 9 months.  I was sick w/ this pregnancy for about 2 days, throwing up etc...but all of a sudden, I feel fine.  No other symtoms of a mc, but I was just wondering if anyone could give me some hope and/or advice.  Thanks for listening to me ramble.  
Michelle

[Kimmy9093]

Hi Michelle

My prayers go out to you and your DH. I was in the same mindset as you. 2 wks ago I had my 1st sonogram at 7w3d, and I measured 5w5d. I KNEW immediately it was over. So at my 2nd sonogram a week later, a m/c was confirmed, but I had totally prepared myself mentally a week prior, so it was as bad.

Two days ago I had my very first D&E, and this is my 3rd m/c. Since I started passing everything naturally with my first 2 m/c's, my DR's swayed away from a D&C or a D&E. This time I had no spotting or cramping, so a D&E was suggested. Plus, they wanted to scrape some tissue to be analyzed. Monday I was pretty nervous about my uterus being poked and vacuumed out, but it ended up being a really easy experience, and I have had practically no bleeding or cramping after. My 1st 2 m/c's it took a week to pass everything, and honestly, seeing tissue in the toilet wasn't the easiest experience. I think if I wasn't already bleeding, I mght have opted for a D&E back then.

If ya'll want another baby, don't give up. We'll be going on our 4th time TTC in a couple months, and although TODAY I am an emotional mess, my faith is keeping me strong. If you have faith that you will be blessed with a beautiful baby, I believe it will happen.

I will be praying for you.
Kim

[twokids19]

Hello ladies...I did finally get to my ob & as I was already expecting, I did miscarry.  I am very sad about it, but at the same time, I think I already had a mindset that I would be miscarrying, since my body had told me early on.  I was about 6 weeks & once again my dr did not do a d&c, does this sound weird to anyone?  I didn't have one w/ my first m/c either & everyone I seem to talk to most always has a d&c no matter how far long they are.  Thank you for your support & Sharon thank you for your prayers.  My husband & I decided not to try again.  I don't know if we could go thru this again.  
Michelle

[Sharon2714]

good luck and god bless u
i wil be praying for u
sharon

[twokids19]

Thank you all for your feed back...I did take another ept this morning, it came back negative... I have a call in to my ob & will see her as soon as possible, thank you again for your support....Michelle

[pinkladybug]

I was on that bc that you only have your period every 4 months or something like that well to make a long story short i was already 4 months along when i found out I was prego and i never once got sick! i hope things go great for you and your family!

[mommato4]

I was real sick with my first,lost almost 25 lbs.With my son i was only sick once. Every pg is different. I hope you the best Michelle..

[Sharon2714]

my second pregnancy (first child) i was ill for only one day and REMARKABLY no other side effects of pregnancy til her birth (shes in college now) ... it was one of those pregnancies that could have lasted forever and i was so greatful :)
but please put in a call to our ob just in case
u need and deserve peace of mind

i pray all goes well for u and this lack of nausea is a gift from God as u have suffered tragedy before and he is just easing your symptoms

god bless
sharon