Regretting this...

[Della12]

I am currently in so much pain and can't stay away from the toilet :((( I should never have chosen to naturally miscarry ;(( its 10 times worst than an actual hectic heavy period. Well I am currently just bleeding without any clots at all (yet) and I have terrible diarrhea, sorry TMI :( sigh I was thinking just yesterday to go on Monday for the damn D&C  because its been 3 weeks since my baby died and body just seemed to hold on. Well I think it's finally letting go and I just ran out of "period type pain killers" . I've got a warm bottle thingy I'm using now for the pain, I just have a feeling that this is only the start of worst pain To follow once I pass clots eventually. Awwwww :(( today I was suppose to be 10w2d . I just pray that the pain will eeze a bit. Maybe I should quickly drive to the 24/7 pharmacy at the hospital cause its after hours now. Not sure what to do or I'f I can manage to drive and I'm home alone.  any other advice for me ladies to not feel like I'm busy dying :( my previous miscarriage was a D&C should have listened

[baby2014]

In Sorry for your loss. But the tampons may have been causing you more pain because your body is trying to push out not hold it in. Pads are your best bet. I also had a missed miscarriage in 2010. I passed it on my own by choice and would do the same because d&c have a risk of infertility and it can scar your uterus making pregnancies harder to carry. I carried up to 13 weeks and passed a sack that looked like a deflated balloon. I woke up on may 28th with the urge to go to the bathroom and just felt it. I buried my precious little one and it gave me a small sense of comfort. My first miscarriage I didn't see anything because I was pretty early 7 weeks. But I still had a memorial and buried a box with some letters and a few other things. I will keep you in my prayers and hope all works out in your next pregnancy it took 3 times for me to have a successful one and I honestly didn't think I would ever carry.

[sammymarie92]

Sounds awful! :( I didn't have any pain meds either and I had to get up every half hour throughout the night to change my pad. And btw you shouldn't be wearing tampons! It can cause infection since your cervix is dilated and you shouldn't take a bath either bc that can also cause infection. After a few days tampons are fine to use again. Just don't want you to get an infection and be in more pain! I'm sorry for your loss and I hope the bleeding stops soon as well as the pain.

[Della12]

It was such a horrible experience for me. Damn I ended up driving to 3 different local hospitals trying to find a pharmacy that was open late at night by the time I got to the first one it was closed, so was the other 2. I stated bleeding heavily right through my tampons and ended up going trough 5 tampons in less than an hour ,my car seat was full of nlood luckily I had black pants on. Sorry tmi. I then just have up and went home. By the time I got home at 11pm driving around trying to find pain killers my hubby was bak from work and then he ran me another bath and made me dinner cause I lost so much blood and felt like fainting. Well I ended up seeing my little baby in the sac still, it was so extremely sad an then after te sac came out with lots I other chunks I ended up bleeding some more. This all happended Saturday night while being alone and today it's just like normal period still. Well my lesson learnt I should have just done the D&C like my previous one. But I'm praying that I never have to go through this gain and especially alone. I didn't want to go to er cause I still had a waiting period on my medaid

[bri1210]

I was 11+6 by the time my baby finally came out. It was the most excruciating pain imaginable but it was well worth it to get to see my little baby. I got a little casket from a place called heaven'sgain.com. I called the doctor on call and he told me to take Tylenol and ibuprofen which didn't help much. My pains started at about 1 am. I probably slept from 5-8 am and my pains lasted until 6pm when my baby fell in the toilet inside the sac. My pains came every 2-3 minutes for the entire time except the few hours I slept. I was not gonna let them suck my baby out like I was having an abortion. It meant the world to me to see my baby.

[retta483]

go to the Er hun then you can get a dnc done i have had 2 miscarriages and the dnc one was way easier to deal with . hoping you get relief soon

[luckymommy13]

I'm so sorry for your lost hun. You're in my prayers and know that everything will be okay just keep God first.

[sarah_wiemann]

I'm very sorry you have to go through this. I don't have any advise but I just want you to know that I am praying for you.