how long should we wait?

[SoConfusedRightNow]

I've just had my second miscarriage. Everyone is telling me to wait 12 months before trying but me and my partner don't want to wait that long.. we kinda want to start as soon as ita healthy to..

what's everyone's opinions and advice on this?

[neli2013]

My doctor told me to wait atleast 3 cycles after my miscarriage and even at that i still skip one cycle...so i dont know. Listen to you doc if your doctor..best of luck

[naan84]

I'd try when your ready, definitely wait 1 cycle so you know your back on track and if your ready then start trying, good luck :)

[SoConfusedRightNow]

They told me theres nothing to worry about unless I have another one, then they'll look into it.. they told me to at least wait until I have a period.. its my family that's telling me to wait.

[naan84]

I'm sorry for your losses. Have you asked your doctor's for testing to see of there is a reason behind your miscarriages? Did you doctor suggest how long you should wait? Most of the time it is safe to try again when you feel emotionally and physically ready.

[EMOTIONALx2]

12 months is a long time. When you feel like your ready feel free unless the dr say something that's health related as to the reason you should wait and even so, I would expect they would be doing something in return. Either way I don't think your body would allow you to do something it's not ready for. I would just recommend being very proactive and verbal with this pregnancy so it won't happen again only cause I realize this is such a traumatic experience especially when your so far out. Good luck though.