Scared and Alone

[emmylu]

Hi all. I hope that no one takes offense to my question as I know many are grieving the losses of their babies, however- I need help from other moms. I had a surgery done on my cervix a year ago and they took some of it out. well six months later i got p/g and had a m/c. i am now pregnant again and am wondering if i will m/c again. i think my cervix may not be able to support having a baby, maybe thats why i miscarried last time. I am not worried about miscarrying again, as this p/g comes at a VERY bad time in my life. I am just curious if I should be concerned. Please help!

[kgokgo]

I don`t know much about what you asked about but I just wanted to offer my support. Like everyone said, sometimes pregnancies happen when its not the best of times but just remember that God doesn`t give us what we can`t cope with. It just takes time but eventually things will fall into place. I hope things will go well for you. You are in my prayers.

[Pips]

I agree with what has been said about children coming when we don't expect them and the gift that they truly are!

My oldest came at a time when I totally was not expecting, nor did I think I was ready for him.  I soon came to find out that there wasn't a happier or more blest time in my life previous to the time that my son was born.  Of course after going through the m/c, I can't imagine ever being unsure about whether or not I wanted a child.

Take a deep breath ... talk to your doctor ... and then do what's necessary with the news.  If you are lucky enough to carry the child, you will be so happy with the results.

[Latrice414]

I would talk to a dr, for in the future, what if you want to have children, there is something that may need to be done to your children.  I also beleve that things dont come into our life when we want them, and that no matter what we going threw in life, god will not give us nothing we can not handle. For children our truly a blessing and a gift, for there are so many women struggling to get preggo or may not even be able to have a child.

Wishing you much luck and will keep you in my prayers.

[nunu1977]

As Bam said, no offense taken. this is definitely a question for your Dr. If the pregnancy turns out viable then I hope that you can find some peace in your life to enjoy the blessing of having a child.  

[steph9803]

Not all pregnancies happen at the best of times...Your baby is counting on you now though. Are you seeing a dr.? I know that they can do different things such as a cerclage to sew up your cervix. How far along are you? Did the dr.'s say anything about you having an incompetent cervix?

[bam1014]

There is no offense taken.  This is a perfectly legitimate question to ask in this forum.  However, unfortunately I'm not able to answer your question.  It's beyond my scope of knowledge.  What does your dr say about your cervix?
I know a co-worker was diagnosed w/an imcompetent cervix and had to have it sewed shut for her pg to be successful, but don't know anything beyond that.