Soooo scared im going to miscarry again!! HELPP

[W123]

I found out i am pregnant about 5 days ago after miscarrying in november last year. I am roughly 4 weeks pregnant. Before i found out i was pregnant i had a realy bad tummy bug and was taking loads and loads of medication. I also smoked weed for about a week before i found out i was pregnant but the day i took a positive test i havent touched it again. I have also realy tried to give the baby all the nutrients it needs by eating loads of fruit and veg and taking folic acid every day. I have mild cramping and am wating to see my doctor on monday and be refered to the hospital for a scan but i am seriously worried im going out of my mind. I have also had sex twice since finding out i am pregnant and today i read a pregnancy book which says you shouldnt have sex in the first few weeks if you have had a miscarriage before. I had to have an emergancy D&C opperation last time i was preganant after going to the toilet and experiencing LOADS of blood and clotts coming out of me. Now everytime i go to the loo i am so woried the same thing is going to happen. I have stopped having hot baths and have avoided any stress, smoke or bad foods. I dont know what else i can do! Im so scared and would like some advice. Has anyone ever been in my situation before? I had cramps yesterday so me and my partner decided it would be a good idea to go up the hospital to see if i could get an emergancy scan but they said my GP needs to refer me. I also had bad morning sickness the day after i took the positive pregnancy tests and havent had any since. Sometimes i feel realy pregnant and other times i dont feel pregnant atal. Sorry for the lenght of my message but im going out of my mind !! Please help me !! Thanks in advance !!

[canesgrl13]

I feel the same way--always looking in the toilet after I've gone and praying that nothing is there.  Had a mc on 12/5/2010 and now 5w and 2d.  I don't want to seem negative, yet I'm always expecting the worst!  I hate that about myself.  I have a 6 1/2 year old daughter who I had no problems during pregnancy with.  I am now 40, so I'm sure that had something to do with it.  My fiance is very careful of everything I do, ever since the mc.  It is supposed to be such a happy time, but yet I'm so scared all of the time.  I definitely have the sore boobs, feeling full all of the time, peeing all of the time, etc.  Good luck to all and lots of babydust to you!

[W123]

That realy did help you explained your symptoms EXACTLY the same as mine. Constant sore, and heavy boobs i feel like im poping out my bra's. And im hungry now even though ive just eaten a MASSIVE dinner and its been the same for the last 2 weeks. I sometimes feel like i could puke but i dont know if thats just because ive eaten so much lol. Thanks so much for your help and good luck as well x

[RmberMe69]

I had a miscarriage Oct last year. I am now 7w pregnant. I was smoking when I found out (as it was unexpected) It took me a week to give up. I don't feel guilty that I was smoking, because as soon as I found out I started giving up. I haven't has sex at all, and in actual fact I really don't think we have had it since I conceived lol. But my partner understands that sex is out for awhile. I don't want to take any chances. Like you every time I go to the loo (toilet) I check to see if I am bleeding. As to symptoms, mine come and go, however fatigue,hunger, and sore boobs are constant. I do feel ill at times, like I'm hungry, and when I eat its like ICK! I know I probably didn't help in any way. I wish you all the best... baby dust to you!