THANK YOU ALL

[kellibubba]

As sad as it is I have been searching for people who have been through the same as what I have. After trying to concieve for months I found out the baby at 11 weeks had no Heartbeat...
It gives me such strength to see all your comments and makes me feel like im not alone in this world when i see my sisters ( being preg the same time as i was) belly grow.

[shasy03]

I'm sorry for your loss.  I had a pregnancy similar to your last January.  I was 6 weeks and we saw a heartbeat and when at 7 weeks the baby had not grown and had no heartbeat.  I started to miscarry on my own and had to end up having a D&C done.  I have not had a successful pregnancy yet.  But, they think that it has a lot to do with issues with me (my blood) and everything...we are working to get things straight.  

As far as seeing pregnant women.  It always  seems as soon as I find out at least 2 and 3 of my friends or parents (of the center I work with) are pregnant so I constantly have to watch them.  Also, one friend (who I get a long with for my husband and his friends sake) in particular is big about rubbing it in my face that she is getting bigger, I'm not sure if she means to or if it just happens.  I just choose to ignore her...or straight up tell her I'm happy your pregnancy is going as planned but really...I don't want to talk about it.  As far as watching people one tv..I have to change the channel.  I get to emotional about that could have been me.  So, we tend to watch reality tv more than anything and I hate reality tv b/c it doesn't show pregnancies most of the time.

Good luck and if you need to talk or anything know that I am here.

[Gracie0717]

I am so sorry for your loss. I lost mine at 9 weeks, no heartbeat as well. You are not silly, don worry about it. When it happens to me, I can't even watch any shows which talk about babies and pregnant women. I will just switch channels. We will be here if you need to talk. Good luck.

Grace

[kellibubba]

Has anyone been through that and still had a happy safe pregnancy after it. id like to hear how you dealt with it. I still can watch people on tv who have a baby belly.. silly i know

[Tracy21]

im so sorry for your loss
im the same me and my sister were due 5 days apart and i found out that my babys heartbeat had stopped on tuesday so i know how hard it must be for you to watch evryone around you being pregnant. im happy for my sister but i still feel it should be me aswell being pregnant now i just need to concentrate on having my first niece or nephew so there is still a happy ending for me.
i hope you have the baby you deserve
good luck
xx

[roxy316]

I can relate.  I found out at 10 weeks that the heartbeat had stopped at 8 weeks.  My best friend and my step sister are both pregnant.  It's very hard to be around them even though I'm happy for them.  I'm so happy I found this site!  My husband and family have been supportive, but it's hard for them to understand how I'm feeling.  I don't feel so alone in my grief anymore!

[mjmom69]

I'm so sorry for your loss. You are not alone. We are all here for you. You can send me a message anytime with questions or if you just need to vent. It will be ok.

[sania19]

i m so sorry. yes don't lose hope .

[ArmyPrincess819]

I'm so sorry honey! Don't lose hope we have been in your shoes. I'm always here for you ! Best wishes to you!

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