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Jan of 2015 I was in the ER for abdominal/ovary pain. I was on my period and bleeding very very heavy with clotting. They did an untrasound but saw nothing did a pregnancy test and saw that I had hcg level that said pregnant but was falling.
They checked for ectopic pregnancy amount other things. I was on yaz birth control when this happened. I was also passed my period by two months. They couldn't really tell what happened. But they said that I either had an endometriosis episode, or a miscarriage. Fast forward to today I'm 21 as Is my fiance. (We were only dating when I was in the er. It was a month into our relationship) now we are engaged to be married next oct 2017. I told him the other day that I wanted to try to have a baby. He is not fond of the idea whatsoever. Any time I bring up that night in the er he changes the subject. He says he doesn't want to try right now because of our money situation and that our wedding is next year. But for the last month all I can think about it having a baby. I've even been having dreams. I don't know what it means. I think he doesn't want to try because he's scared I'm going to miscarry again. I don't know what I should do or say to him. I just have this overwhelming feeling that a baby is in our near future.
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Can't force him to do something he's not ready to do. Maybe he wants to wait till after you're married. But for now, I would just leave the topic alone and maybe bring it up in 6 months - 1 year from now.
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