bàbys not going to make it

[Annfernandez]

I'm in the office can't leave the room I'm crying so hard. My levels were not good enough and the ultrasound shows no growth. They want to give me pills miscarry at home or DC at the hospital. Im a mess. I dont want to loose the baby.

[Annfernandez]

What's really hurting is the father was trying to force me to have an abortion and i refused so he abandoned me. So now hes happy he gets what he wants. I can never be around him again after this. He wanted something to happen.

[Annfernandez]

I have to work a lot the next few days so at first I said I guess go have it done so I don't miscarry at work. But what if some how they are wrong? I can't bring myself to do it. If there is something wrong I will still love the baby I just want it to live I don't care. But she said its going to miscarry.

[Annfernandez]

I'm going to just let it happen I'm confused she kept saying it wont be healthy. So i kept asking so does this mean the baby wont live is there no way???? She said no

[Annfernandez]

Thank everyone. To Jessica0323 because I didn't remember my first day of my last period they tried to do an ultrasound to date the pregnancy. Well I have an retroverted uterus and it was hard to see the baby but the sac measured 7 weeks. I did 2 sets of hcg. First set on the 16th level was 16,700 on Monday they were 21,500 and the ultrasound today she said is still measuring 7 weeks. So the doctor said its not growing and the numbers should have more than doubled. But the girls at the desk told me Monday that they were good so I'm more upset they told me then it was good and it wasn't. So the doctor said it will no grow and I will miscarry so I can let it happen, take the pills and miscarry at home or go to the hospital to get a d/c. She needed to know my blood type so she said we will do one more hcg to prove to me its not going to happen. She wanted to call in the pills I said no.

[3bgirls15]

Definitely get a second opinion and don't take that pill yet!!! I know of a case where the Dr was wrong and you want to be absolutely sure before putting an end to the baby! So sorry for what you are dealing with and praying for a miracle!

[natashaloo]

My heart goes out to you hun :-( same thing happenend to Me early last year and I had D&C hospital . So heart breaking hun can feel your pain . Sending hugs to you.  Get a second opinion tho x