I have recently had a miscarriage at 11 weeks and have not got a private medical aid, so went to a local state hospital. I under went a painful manual pelvic examination to be told that I had lost the baby, and then had a d and c with only a pain killer. (pethadine) Is this normal procedure, if you are unfortunate enough to not be able to afford a medical aid scheme in south africa? Is this what all women with no medical aid have to suffer because of they cannot afford a medical aid?
I am struggling with this as the few friends I know who have suffered miscarriages have got medical aid's and so all had a full anesthetic. I am still having a few nightmares now about a month later.
Any support would be appreciated.