When came we try for a baby after m/c

[Jadai]

I finally fell pregnant after 2 and a half years of trying. I thought everything was going well, I went to the doctors last Monday for a routine check up and was 11 weeks to find out the baby's heart beat had stopped sometime between the 8 week scan and last Monday.

I have taken the tablets to fulling miscarriage as I had no symptoms to go through a week of hell, throwing up, heavy bleeding and clotting, faint, hot and cold temp. I couldn't believe how I was feeling, by Friday afternoon I could hardly sit and walk, extreme pain.

After more painkillers and a few conversations with the doctor, I went back in yesterday to find out I had a clot over my cervix, they got rid of it and the amount of blood I lost was horrendous. I got home and dropped in the shower, my pants were red, clots came out. The pain has finally gone, I wanted a baby so badly and feel very empty.

I hope I fall pregnant again but and not to sure when to start trying again, I am still leading but it's like a normal period (thank god)

I feel like I have real bad luck and just want a baby with my loving husband.

[beautifulmum]

sorry my whole last comment should have been to Jadai. but you can read it.
sorry for you loss i feel you pain and totally get it

[beautifulmum]

well just to help you out if i can i too recently lost my pregnancy i was 20 weeks the day i delivered him but he had passed around 17 weeks. it has to have been the worst day im my life especially as it would have been the first boy in a family full of girls both my boyfriend and i have 2 daughters and i am one of 6 girls.
i too am trying to look to the future and got told from the OB that delivered Chance that i am physically ready this coming weekend which is approx. 14 days from his birth so i should be ovulating.
I know how this feels but you do have to kind of except what you just went through and be willing to try again.
I am ready and need to be pregnant asap as i need to hold a healthy child and replace the horrible hospital experience in my brain.
I will never forget my son but the experience of it all sucked.
I hope all of you the best of luck concieving and maybe we can start a new group pregnant and happy after m/c.

[Ellenhall85]

You will get ur family your having these thoughts because its still early days. Don't put pressure on yourself and I'm sure your husband is supportive! I have days where I feel Human and then others where I have so many thoughts going through my head and im so upset. I am not sure if I am emotionally ready coz I have these days . However I want to have another baby so badly and I think falling pregnant again will give me a new focus.

[Jadai]

I was on hormone tablets to fall pregnant before going down the ivf road and I'm scared I will
Have to go there. Feeling very sorry for my husband like I have taken away his dreams of a family

[Jadai]

Im so sorry for your loss, I know how you feel, it's a horrible nightmare. I'm not emotionally ready yet but am hoping it happens very soon.

[junebug19]

as soon as you are ready (emotionaly) you can start when ever! doc tell you not to do anything up til  you get your next period but thats because (your fertile) and can easly get pregnant again

[Ellenhall85]

So sorry for your loss and I feel your pain. I too went through a week of hell and ended up in hospital for losing too much blood. I have been told you can start trying when your emotionally ready and have at least one cycle (helps with dates) if I'm honest as soon as I stop bleeding I'm hoping to fall pregnant as soon as possible. Have you considered ovulation sticks to help you conceive. This worked for me last time just unfortunately i lost my baby :(