did I have a misscarriage?

[xdanniigurlx]

I missed my period for 3 months I did a pregnancy test and it went positve then negative I went to the doctors and they did a pregnancy test and it was a clear negative the doctor said this could be a misscarriage but I was confused as I'd had pain but no bleeding at all, then that night started bleeding then the next night I had heavy bleeding with big blood clots today no bleeding I have blood tests tomorrow and I am booked for a viginal ultrasound could this be a misscarriage as I only bled for two days?? Also will it still show up on the scan if I had a complete misscarriage? Me and my partner are so devistated please help

[Mrsspeirsy]

It is an extremely scary time.Waiting around for results and scans is not an easy time.I found it hard to talk to anyone at first. It was easier to talk to my husband as he is my best friend and I though if anyone could start to understand my pain it would be him because its his loss aswell. I knew he felt helpless. There's nothing anyone can do to help the way you feel. I'd find little jobs for him to do so that he could feel like he was helping. I'd get him to fetch pain killers. Make hot water bottles or even just make a cup of tea. I've read a lot of other people's experiences online  and I think this does help the feeling of being alone.

[xdanniigurlx]

Thank you so much for your comment it helps to know that people understand you, have had my blood tests just waiting on results and also still waiting for my ultrasound I've never been so scared if I'm honest, find it very hard to talk to my fiance as I know he is hurting too.

[Mrsspeirsy]

The not knowing is awful. I recently had a missed miscarriage. I started spotting at 11weeks and 4days. I had concerns because I started spotting. I had a scan and discovered my baby was not the size it should have been only measuring at 5-6weeks. Even though it had stopped growing potentially weeks before there had been no signs of miscarriage yet.i was told if I took a test at this time it would still be positive even tho I had had a missed miscarriage until my hormone levels had returned to normal. I was in a lot of pain for a long time before I started bleeding properly and the only time it was extremely heavy with a lot of blood clots was passing tissues and for a couple of days after. I passed tissues on 2 occasions with a week in between after medical management. I couldn't understand why I was in so much pain with such light bleeding when I was having a miscarriage . The doctor said its because my body was trying to do its job passing every thing but was struggling.i blead for about a month with various flows. I hope you get all your answers.talking to my partner helped me a lot even if it didnt get questions answered.xx