Is it a miscarriage?

[Ariai]

I'm almost 7 weeks. I had slight red bleeding on wed(last week) so i decided to go to ER because I know I'm RH- and would probably need the shot. So i got the shot. Then On Thursday they sent me to an EPAC and they said they did see yolk sac, still too early to tell the embryo though, they checked my levels and phoned me in the evening and told me they were rising.

I know I'm very lucky, the doctors have been super useful and kind and doing all they can, I know you' guys have probably heard this a million times! and even myself I know the answer is sometimes you can't know till you get that ultrasound and waiting etc..But I was just curious if anyone thought there was hope?..

Because come saturday sunday, and today, i'v had a lot of red/dark blood. with some tiny clots. (Sorry if TMI, it like pools) but that's how my period always is too, never really fully goes on pad, and I must go to washroom all day T_T..so I am having period cramps, and some sharp pains and slight backache, and I feel nausea! and this whole time I never had nausea

I have a beautiful baby boy 19 months and had miscarriage few months ago. I' know it's so early in pregnancy last time was 12 weeks and blighted ovum.

Sorry I'm ranting! I just want to know if it's possible to go through all that and still have a baby? i have an ultrasound tomorrow..lets hope it works out..

[PetiteWonder]

I am really sorry, it turned out this way.  At least doing it naturally, you should be able to start TTC right away and you are more fertile after a miscarriage. It doesnt make this one easier, its a horrible loss..  I still have days where I cant believe it was me.. after seeing so many people have successful pregnancies in the last year, why was it me...

[Jhanee]

I am truly sorry about your loss. Please remember you can never prepare yourself for the loss of your child. You have the right to be hurt and cry. I did and I still hurt now even though it was back in March. I find the best place to come and express how you feel is here in the forum. Everyone here has a good understanding of what you are going through and they give really great advise and encouragement. Again I am sorry for what you are going through.

[Ariai]

*sigh* thanks again, seems it was a miscarriage, I shouldve known last week when I went they said it was 4 weeks, I went home and thought that doesn't make sense I should be exactly 7 weeks according to my positive tests, it seems i was right,the baby never grew, it's actually 1mm smaller. So I''m doing it naturally because they suggest it, because it's so low and already in the process if it gets worse I'll go back. Thanks again, guess waiting and time is best answer. In so much pain ;(

I tried to hold in my tears so much, till i got outside..Bleh I prepared myself for this bad news, yet still hurt.

[Ariai]

Thanks so much for your post hun! Yeah I'm heading out right now, I'm scared i want to hear some miracle thing like it's a blood clot or something, but it just feels to insane, I woke up this morning and sat down with just huge flows of blood for like 3 seconds :(. Yeah last time I took the pills misof. And it was such intense cramping it was like 10*a period and contracting, with huge clots passing and then the sac it was pretty scary actually :(. But i  hear when you miscarriage naturally it's not as quick or painful and can take weeks(?) That's what I worry, nothing gray or huge clots yet, but still worried.

I'm so very weak i feel almost like fainting, so glad i'm going now. I just want to talk about it and believe it's all okay..Thanks again! I'll update ..

[PetiteWonder]

That is a tough situation.  Im sorry you are going through this. I also had a blighted ovum at 12 weeks a couple months ago now... It does sound like a miscarriage but generally it is a good sign if your cervix is closed. It could be a threatened miscarriage but there is some hope there.  I hope the ultrasound goes well!  As yo usaid in your post, you know you wont really know until the ultra sound tomorrow. But if your cervix is still closed and you havent passed any greyish tissue (from what I heard) then  there is hope.

Miscarriage pains are suppose to be real strong like cant stand up strong. I had a d&c after my blighted ovum....  But I think the placenta stuck.. I have no clue b ecause when I got examined my uterus was cleared at that point but earlier in that day about a week after my d&c, I started passing clots, and the amount got bigger, and the amount larger...  Then at one point, I got really intense pressure and pain, I fell over and I felt alot come out of me.. The cramp was really bad.. So I imagine if I did experienced passing left over tissue at that point that the cramping in a miscarriage is bad.  

[Ariai]

I also forgot to add that, (TMI) there is lots of slimey ness :(...wah..what could it mean..and when they checked my cervix on thursday was closed. Doesn't it mean I'm open if I'm bleeding where else would it come from?