impending mc

[Scout8601]

I don't know how to deal with this again.  I'm 6 weeks and just got my first levels....hcg is only 25 and prog is only 7.  I know what that means.  I had a mc back in Jan and it was the worst thing ever.  And now again.  My sister tells me that I shouldn't be so emotional b/c I was only 6 weeks, but she doesn't get it. I have no children and I'm over 40, so it's apparent that I'll never have a child.  How do you keep going?  I'm so sorry to all of you who have had to go thru this even more than twice.  

[aowens]

I am so sorry for your loss....Girl you be as emotional as you want, you cry, scream, throw things you do what ever you need to....I have had 2 miscarriages this year...and unless they have lost a baby wether it be 6 weeks,6 months or 6 years NOONE and I mean NOONE knows the pain it causes....people try to understand and say the wrong things....

You do find it within yourself to keep going and I wont lie it is hard.....Im fine one day and crying the next...I have friends that are pregnant and I cant even force myself to go to their baby showers....I should be having my own baby shower not attending one...I can tell you that you are among friends here and most of us know the pain you are going through...So whenever you need to talk, or just vent we will be here to listen...

Hugs to you

Angel

[bernie40]

I'm so sorry :(  I don't know how anyone can say you're being over emotional, no matter how early the gestation it makes no difference.  From the moment we discover we are pregnant we begin to bond with that baby, we make plans for it, we have hopes and dreams.  I have 3 angel babies, one at 7 and a half weeks, one at 5 weeks and my last miscarriage resulted in a D&C at 12 weeks.  To  discover that a pregnancy has ended is one of the worst things any woman can go through.  Don't give up hope of ever conceiving, see if your Dr can give you any indication as to why this is happening.