miscarried @ 9wks than...

[jlc637]

In September I miscarried at 9 weeks, I had a dnc procedure and that was that. Me and my bf were devastated of course..& didn't take proper cautions I ended up pregnant about two weeks later..I'm now 11 weeks.. and my body is so exhausted..I have anemia..I have gallbladder stones..I'm just not my self..I feel so depresed still from the last miscarriage :(( I'm so blessed to have this baby growing inside of me right now and I can't wait! But somethings missing:( has this ever happened to anyone else?

[SophieX]

Im 18 and had a miscarriage last june at 10 weeks and 3 days..i was completely heartbroken suffered depression and a breakdown..then last month found out i was pregnant again and i thought finally things were looking up only to have a chemical pregnancy and loose my baby again..neither baby was planned but once we got over the shock we were really happy..not a day goes by that my first miscarriage doesnt cross my mind but were not going to try for another for a while..even 6 months on i still feel lost and that something inside me is missing..id give anything in this world to have my baby back..i hope everything turns out well for you..

[Hungrysumo]

Jlc, I know it's hard, but try to find a way to put it in your head that this can be a positive thing and that everything will be fine, and once you've convinced yourself of those things it gets easier. I was in your same situation, but I unfortunately lost the one conceived right after miscarriage (Don't let that worry you, my doctor thinks that I have a chemical imbalance and you don't sound like you have that problem :) so don't let that scare you at all!). When I was going the next time around right after miscarriage every day was full of fear and my nerves and body were just totally shot. I spent a lot of time in bed just trying to regain my energy, and every trip to the bathroom was filled with paranoia that this time I would see blood. All the things you are feeling are totally normal! Your body hasn't had time to rest and it's working overtime, but it gets better.

All you can do for yourself in these days is to tell yourself that it'll be ok, and make yourself believe it! When you really believe it (or even just a little bit believe it) you start to think about other happy things and get more optimistic and happy about everything, because really underneath everything you do seem to be happy to be having a baby, and that happiness is just buried under all the worry!

[jlc637]

Yes I have so much going on in this lil world of mine. But thank you for taking the time to read my posts...

[jlc637]

Yes I have so much going on in this lil world of mine. But thank you for taking the time to read my posts...

[adgal]

Well hello there.  I have been chatting with you on your other post.  I would guess that the emotions you are experiencing are a combination of hormones, fear of a repeat loss and probably primarly the other situation you have been talking about on Pregnancy 18-34.  Given all you have been through and are currently going through, I'm not surprised your feeling this way.  I strongly urge you to speak to your Dr.  There is help available for you.  All the best to you.