As i am reading ur reply i am on my way to my mother. Hopefully i get some good news there.
Thank you for ur reply. It gives me a little more confidence.
If you don't have any pain or cramps or bleeding, you could reschedule your appointment for a full week from now. That way, you could be more sure of there being no heart beat and feel good about the D & C. I mean, if there's no pain, what's the hurry to get it out...
After having a miscarriage and dealing with an overly confident (arrogant) medical staff that made plenty of errors, I would wait. That being said, you need to be ready for a natural miscarriage to begin (it could) if they are right...
Hope everything works out.