update :(

Question

as everyone knows i have been bleeding since the 30th july it was light then was heavy like a period i had 2 scans baby measured fine had heartbeat well today i went for another scan and the baby has no longer got a heartbeat im losing my baby im meant to be 7 weeks 5 days and the baby died at 7 weeks 2 days so i now need to go into hospital to take a pill to stop the progesterone and 48 hours after that i go back to hospital they will insert a tablet into my vigina to start the miscarriage i havent had a miscarriage before so im just taking it as it comes i just cant believe how much it hurts. 
thanks to everyone who has taken time out to speak to me and good luck with all your pregnancies 
xxxx 
take care xx

prettygirl87 · Answer

I AM SORRY FOR YOUR LOST I KNOW YOUR PAIN ALL TO WELL I HAD A MISSED MISCARRIAGE IN MAY AND IT IS VERY HARD AND DONT YOU THINK OF WHAT OTHER PEOPLE THOUGHT OF YOU SHARING THAT MOMENT WITH YOUR BABY IF THAT IS WHAT YOU NEED TO DO FOR CLOSURE THEN THAT'S WHAT YOU DO I WENT THROUGH A LOT OF PEOPLE NOT KNOWING HOW I FELT WHEN IT HAPPENED TO ME AND I STII CRY ABOUT MY BABY BUT I CAN TELL YOU THAT IT DOES GET BETTER AS TIME GOES ON AND WHATEVER YOU HAVE TO DO IN YOUR GRIEFING PROCESS DO IT BECAUSE PEOPLE DONT UNDERSTAND UNTIL THEY HAVE BEEN THROUGH IT SO IF THERE'S ANYTHING  I CAN DO TELL MY STORY,ENCOURAGING WORDS OR JUST BE SOMEONE TO TALK TO WHEN YOU ARE FEELING DOWN I'M HERE FOR YOU!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

LisaL18 · Answer

I am also very sorry for your loss. It is a very difficult time that you must go through. It is good that you saw the baby, that might offer you some comfort. I lost my baby at 17 weeks and I looked at him but wish I had looked more, I was just in such shock it was hard. My thoughts and prayers are with you.

mjmom69 · Answer

I'm so sorry for your loss

Tracy21 · Answer

thanks everyone for your comments 
i went into hospital today to take a pill to stop the preogesterone i was allowed home and to come back on friday to bring on the miscarriage but when i came hope i got out the car and had a large clot not the baby but for a few hours i was clotting alot more about an hour ago i went to stand up and a huge clot came away from me i went to the bathroom and noticed the clot and it also had the baby sack with the baby in it i did decide which i know people might not agree but i decided to have a look at the baby and i felt alot better knowing i had seen it and i didnt just flush it down the pan and not notice i had lost it so it was like a small comfort to see its little eyes and stumps for arms and legs i know some people might not agree with me looking at it but i felt it was still my baby and i had to look just to say goodbye i know its time to move on i have 3 beautiful kids so i know they will pull me through this hard time.
thank you everyones comments they mean alot to me and i hope everyone here has the baby use all deserve.
good luck xxx

Gracie0717 · Answer

I am so sorry for your loss. I was 9 weeks along when I had mine so I know how you feel. We will support you here.

bernie40 · Answer

Oh I'm so sorry hon :(  we're here for you xx

sania19 · Answer

im so sorry for you .

marymoonu · Answer

So sorry you're going through this.  I was between 7-8 weeks during my miscarriage also... It really is just painful, physically and emotionally.  *big hugs*