i was 12 weeks and i had a miscarry that i didnt even know i was. i had a blighted ovum. i had a empty sac that measured 10 weeks. and i had to have a D & C on 4/29/2009. cuz i was not bleeding and miscarrying on my own.
I'm sorry for your loss. What did the doctor see- did he see an empty sac ? My first m/c was a missed miscarriage / blighted ovum. I was 9 weeks when I went to the doctor's for my first u/s - he saw the empty sac that measured 9 weeks but baby had stopped growing prob'ly 5 - 6 weeks. I opted for a natural m/c and waited about 3 weeks for it to m/c. But, go for a second u/s for another opinion. Good luck to you, we're all here for you if you need to talk.
I am sorry to hear of your news. I am afraid to tell you I also had a missed miscarriage at 8 weeks. The baby measured 7 weeks when they found no heart beat. I also had no symptoms and was in total shock. I ended up having a d&c the following week because i still really had no symptoms and even at my checkup my cervix was still closed. The only thing I can say to comfort you is that my dr. told me that my body was well prepared for the pregnancy and its just that the baby wasn't healthy. It certainly doesnt help soften the blow but at least it gave me hope that my body will be able to be pregnant again. Good luck to you and feel free to talk to me anytime. I have been there and know what you are feeling....hugs and prayers to you...