Hi,
Wouldn't HIV or cancer show up in a lymph node biopsy?
I cannot think of any relationship between being rear ended and enlarged lymph nodes.
This is a neurology/neurosurgery posting site so this area is not my area of expertise. Widespread lymphadenopathy should be evaluated by an infectious disease or cancer specialist. In particular HIV or lymphoma needs to be looked for.
Good luck
Just a thought, but maybe the 'golf ball' size lump you mentioned could be a benign lipoma and not a swollen lymph node. This can be confirmed by a fine needle aspiration.