Dear Ronni,
It sounds like you are doing so well.
Getting CA 125 results can be very stressful.
With a stage 4 cancer, there is a high risk that it can recur. The fact that it has not yet recurred in 18 months is awesome. It means you have a platinum sensitive cancer. There may come a point with your slowly rising CA 125, that it does become clear that you are experiencing a recurrence.
Your two good doctors are giving you two perfectly reasonable approaches. Their differing views reflect the dilemma we all have which is - how hard do we look for a recurrence if someone is feeling well?
The internet is full of different theories because there is no wrong answer. We do not know if it helps to find a recurrence earlier. I would probably take a middle ground and set some value of the CA 125 at which I would want to look with xrays. For instance say when it goes above 35.
You could ask your doctors to find a value beyond which they are no longer just watching you without further investigation.
best wishes
Thank you so much for your complete answer. I feel a whole lot better knowing that neither doctor is right or wrong...I think your advice that if it goes above 35 is sensible... Again thank you for devoting your time to this site.. Ronni