Yes, it is a circular maize! I, too, have a fierce mother (she's 87) and if she gets wind of this any doctor will get his comeuppance in a twinkling. Of course, she thinks my TVU is part of my colonoscopy right now. Sometimes we have to be our own fierce mothers.
Yup, I would love for these guys to be "fancy on the inside" for about a year as part of their training. Some of them would change their tunes and the way they "treat" women.
Poor things can't use both sides of their brains like we do. They just aren't wired up in our grand fashion.
We all need answers or at least an honest, "I don't know."
Prayers.
CORRECTION:
I MEANT TO SAY: THEY CAN'T USE BOTH SIDES OF THEIR BRAINS. tee, hee.
Yes, it is a circular maize! I, too, have a fierce mother (she's 87) and if she gets wind of any doctor will get his comeuppance in a twinkling. Of course, she thinks my TVU is part of my colonoscopy right now. Sometimes we have to be our own fierce mothers.
Yup, I would love for these guys to be "fancy on the inside" for about a year as part of their training. Some of them would change their tunes and the way they "treat" women.
Poor things can use both sides of their brains like we do. They just aren't wired up in our grand fashion.
We all need answers or at least an honest, "I don't know."
Prayers.
I am going thru the same thing , have a cyst on my ovar the size between a dime and a quater, and if I remember right ovaries are like the size of an acorn.
Go back to see the Gyn on Tuesday, Nov 20th.
Hoping he will be on board to take ovaries out and do biopsy of everything to rule it out.
As you don't want to have cancer but I do want to rule it out if its not , and not have a doctor drag their feet. I have been having these cramps and heavy bleeding for a couple years and two other doctors said oh just a little cyst and it can't cause you much problem............IDIOTS!
At least this doctor and nurse did say this can cause the problems I am having.
Nurse told me to be sure to keep my appt to make plans on what to do about the cyst.
This week I have been a basket case, forgetting things, walking around in a daze, moody, and a kluts on top of it.
Will be glad when Tuesday gets here and I can get an answer and move on , with a firm decison I hope and not just pushed aside like some wacko female who has PMS and no idea what she is talking about.
Have done so much reading on the internet about OC , I can probably tell the doctor some stuff...............lol!
Have feeling that this doctor will do the right thing but you just never know.
I will not take Birth control pills for this , been there done that not doing it again.
Taking my mom with me so I will have another person for support and to ask questions I may forget.
And she will stand up to him and demand answers I get my ways of being a mother from her very firm when it comes to my children and want answers and no beating around the bush are put on the side.
Hopefully will get this over and done with and move on with my life.
Keep us posted on how things are going ckr and Hatgal.
And all of you are in my thoughts and prayers.
Sonya
Yeah, I know the ER docs do all that and aren't very used to treating this. Actually all that ER doc did last year was send me offf with meds but also insisted I see the gyno/onco - the jerkoff who totally belittled my intelligence as a woman who exactly knows her body and still, in the back of my mind (and especially now that it's coming to the forefront of my medical issues again) feels something is not right. That doctor is a VERY respected member of the hospital community in my area and surrounding and is also one in a very few who practice this specialty. Won't go back to him though and I figure if the CT shows something at the ER (and I know it will) then I can take those films to whomever. But, yes, I do need pain reilef until I can get into see these "very special doctors." Ugh........
Thanks for posting to me. And my very best to you..........
I am really sorry to hear that you are in such awful pain. Some doctors can't figure out that it is a real symptom! Duh!
We can look at a doctor's credentials at http://www.ama-assn.org/ or most hospitals have web sites with their staff's information listed. Also you can ask your insurance company for his/her information and if a particular in network doctor is board certified. Sometimes a doctor's credentials and scope of practice is on the insurance company's web site. Of course, you can have the most highly credentialed jerk in the world for a doctor. I know. Word of mouth helps. BUT I DON'T HAVE ANY FRIENDS WITH SYMPTOMS OF OVCA! I am not telling them about me just yet or the casserole patrol will be here. They are good girls. :-)
Remember that ER docs are used to carwrecks, heart attacks, seizures, gun shots, allergic reactions, knife fights and broken limbs. They will put a patch on you, send you home and tell you to call your doctor Monday morning. Please, please search for a reliable gyno/onc. Sometimes nurses can tell you things that others don't know and help you to find a talented, sympathetic doctor WHO LISTENS.
I may end up going through a lot of doctors like some women go through men. It's not that I want to be diagnosed with OVCA but if the doctor is cavelier, the diagnosis can't be trusted either way.
Maybe someone else has a set of criteria that helps us to know whose hands we are putting our precious, painful feminity into. Are there any other realiable methods i.e., online or within our medical communities to search?
Hope you get some pain med, get into your p.j.s and get a break from it hatgal.
Good for you! I gave up last year with the onco: "Oh, just a little adeno, cysts, fibroids, etc. Why do you think it's something more?" Um, duh, I'm in excruciating pain and have all the symptoms they tell you to check out for OVCA, idiot!!!
But....... alas, I have some awful cysts on both ovaries right now and about to head out to the ER as I can't stand the pain. Although when I went to ER last year the doc was sure it was diverticulitis; I bet him upon CT that it was a cyst - guess who was right? Me, my own advocate until the onco made me feel like a baby! I'm actually scared to get involved with any more gynos/oncos. So we'll see what the ER doc says - fun, fun!
Hoping to be the biggest fool on the planet.
Will keep in touch. Appointment with Gyn/Onc is Monday after Thanksgiving.
You summarize it very well! No time to be polite when your heath is involved. I did exactly as you did once I got my act together. One wrong comment or whatever from a doctor and they were history!
I give you a brief sample:
First GP: "there is nothing seriously wrong with you" as he perscribed mega doses of acid reducers and ordered the same blood work over and over.
First Ob/Gyn: "why are you here to see me? Because of the CT reports of a mass? Well it is probabaly a common cyst" and then I asked about my symptoms and she said, "well that sounds like advanced ovarian cancer and you don't have that" and she ordered B12 and lupus tests.
2nd Ob/Gyn: "the cyst is not causing your symptoms, cut back on coffee and soda".
After Gyn Onc ordered CA125 and it was elevated at 388, so he wanted to do surgery (because of endometrioma), this 2nd Ob/Gyn called and offered to do it. What a loser, see ya! Do I look like an idiot, that I would let a less qualified doctor do my surgery.
I ended up have borderline cancer and endometriosis. So, again, better safe than sorry.
Ok, thanks for letting me vent.
You are doing exactly the right thing.
Keep me posted.
Thanks Casey for your good wishes. The scary thing is that our family physician was tenured at a large medical facility and taught medical students. The gastro is highly, highly respected. He did take two biopsies; one of the stomach and another of the esophagus. Perhaps there will be more info on what was done when the reports come back.
Hopefully, the new doctor (who is highly experienced and comes highly recommended) will get me on the right track if OC is suspect. If not, it is bye-bye for him, too.
Dying from politeness is absurd. The comfort level of this decision is high, even if it is completely wrong. Patient's pride shouldn't come into play. Plus, there is the bonus of a new gyn for my annual visit so, if in the future there is a problem; I am already an established patient.
Incompetent doctors will come along they always do. But, cavalier doctors are the worst.
Thank you!
You did absolutely the right thing and have a great attitude about it. Better safe than sorry!
Your other docs are full of cr*p, how does GI doc know there too much bad bacteria and not enough good without testing. Did he biopsy your colon during colonoscopy. I think you have to test the small intestines any way, but not sure.
Anyway, Dr. Goodman on this site, said anything that disrupts normal peristalsis (sp?) of intestines can cause bloating, that is why a cyst or mass can do this.
TVUS is next best test for you. Most likely and hopefully just a benign cyst is causing your symptoms.
I had the same trouble with a bunch of lame doctors, before a good doc found my tumor.
Then I saw more lame docs who said it was nothing, until I found one who took it seriously.
It is very frustrating, but you are doing the right thing by taking control and going to gyn/onc.
It's unfortunate it has to be that way.
Good luck and keep us posted.