sex question

[boosty]

intercourse hurts real bad so i havent been intimate with my husband for almost two months now because of my ovarian cyst. since my surgery is on the 6th of march and after that i cant be with my husband for a while til i recover, i wanna have sex now but does anyone know what sexual position can be less painful? and i dotn wanna rupture it so i wanna know what would be best. should i just avoid sex so i dont rupture? sorry if i was too personal.

[hatgal]

I agree with trying other positions. Although our men love us and they don't want to hurt us, they still have a need that they cannot really control - they are men! Do what is comfortable for you and you can have fun trying the different positions. I just can't wait to get my drive back (changed my anti-anxiety medicine recently). And, of course, best, best of luck to you in March! Take good care of yourself!

[dalip]

i had the same problem.I found that if i sat on top but bent forward so that our torsos were touching(dont sit upright for goodnes sake,deep penetration!)i could then control how deep my hubby entered me.Also him on top with my legs flat and straight with my hands on the underside of his hips,again i could control the depth.Although it was at times still uncomfortable it was not the excruiating pain i experianced with other postitions!.Hope this helps.GOOD LUCK IN MARCH.dawn

[boosty]

thank you guys. i will try that.

[dian07]

If it's painful don't do it!  I am certain your husband doesn't want to hurt you any more than you want to be hurt....being intimate isn't supposed to hurt!  There are other ways to be intimate .....to show your love for eachother.  You have already gone two months.....just be patient.....it will be like the first time again!
Peace.
dian